How many?

[lilminx]

Does anyone either know or know where to find out the percentage of 17 year old girls that have not had sex? I have not and feel left out.

[petes_dragon]

I don't know the answer but I reckon it would be higher than you think!!!

I'm one - I was 18 when I had sex for the first time!

A xXx

[loobie]

Ooo don't feel left out hunni, be proud that you are not opening your legs to just anyone that comes along. Well done you I say.

[nat_84]

Its really no stress.... its not about age or comparison.

Its about when you feel ready.

As pete rightly says - i think its a lot higher than u imagine.

Dont rush anything and take your time.

[joannie10]

Also most people who say they have had it are just saying that so they can be the same as their friends who probably have not even had it anyway!!

[lilminx]

Thanks.I believe that the ones that are bragging about doing it are the ones that have not really and the ones that keep their mouth shut are the ones that have.I have just read that if you wait until you are 20 you are 60% more likely to have a long and loving relationship and 50% more likely to have a high paid job.

[China Doll]

It's nothing to rush in to, once you have sex you can't ever go back to just holding hands. Wait til you meet someone that makes you want to go that bit further. I was over 17 before I had sex.

[redcrx]

Not sure about lesbian sex. Why feel left out?

[teag1rl]

Or sex with a syringe?

[lilminx]

I feel left out because all my friends have had sex(or say they have) and I have not yet.There is someone that I have been in a relationship with for 6 months now and I was thinking of having sex with them and was really excited about it but now that the time is close I feel like chickening out and the idea does not seem that great after all.

[loobie]

Well if you are not sure, don't do it. You have to be 100% sure that it is the right person. You can only do it for the first time once, there is no going back. Don't feel pressured by your mates honey.

[Octavius]

Some statistics:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml =/news/2005/04/01/nsexx01.xml

But remember, there are two kinds of statistics, the kind you look up and the kind you make up. 98% of all statistics are made up. There are men who have drowned crossing a stream with an average depth of six inches you know.

[lilminx]

I want to do it because I think it will be fun but I am worried that after I do it I will regret it and want to be a virgin again.I guess I will still be a virgin because I will still never have had sex witrh a man but it is still not the same.

[laurence2]

lilminx, you sound like a young lady with your head screwed on the ''RIGHT WAY''.

Don't worry about what your friends have done {allege}, also don't read into the figures you have quoted, thats all they are ''FIGURES''.

You will know when the time is right, thats 'YOU'' not your so-called friends who will dare you for arguments sake.

[lilminx]

Thanks Octavius it is hard to believe the statistics because often they are from teenagers being asked whether or not they have had sex and they say yes just to seem cool and grown up.But I will look at them anyway.

[~owzat~]

I should think that sex with a real man, must be oh so much better than with a turkey baster oops I mean syringe.

[~owzat~]

Oh dear, I'm so sorry laurence, I've gone and fed the troll again!!

[lilminx]

No I am not a troll.Some people on here seem to think all lesbains MUST be the same person.Well I am genuine and have decided to just ignore the people that say I am not.

[redcrx]

so why not mention you were a lesbIAn on the original question? people have different views on foreplay, oral and penetrative sex and what a virgin is by those actions

[redcrx]

and with that i shall no longer feed the TROLL.

[~owzat~]

Oh of course LesBAINS is back!

Go on, tell us you drop these little clues about, just to keep us guessing?