tonight i saw!!

[rugeleyboy]

what are your feelings on this?? tonight i saw a 13 yr old ish girl in the company of a 44 yr old drug dealer!! they were not on thier own but it was obvious she was an addict by the look of her!! it made me think of my own children and i hope to god that i can steer them away from the stupidty of this child!!! if i knew her or her parents i would of done something about it, but alas i dont!!!

[electricblue]

These scum work on the youngsters to get their addicts of the future,we had one living not too far from us a while back,used to sell heroin for 50p,get 'em hooked,knock up the price,they couldnt give a sh1t how old they are,i pray my kids are too clued up to mess with that sh1t and the dealers should all be shot slowly!!

[Neenee]

its sad that in todays society children as young as this are getting caught up in these things.....

i have a daughter, who is young at the mo, but i would like to think that my advice to her going forward will guide her and prepare her for a prosperous future, and not one like you have seen tonight. very sad.

where are the parents... makes you wonder ???

[raysparx1]

Hi ruge,

makes me feel sick, I am in a dilema at the moment with drugs, A nephew of mine has started taking drugs,I know why he takes them,but I am not going into that to deeply,basically he was abused as a kid by someone (not family) and he has recently seen the bloke on the streets, he takes the drugs to hide the shame he feels,but he won't talk about it, I have got to sort this bloke out cos it's doing my nut in,knowing what happened and he is free yet my nephew is a prisoner, I am a bit scared I will harm him real bad, I don't mind going inside for it, All i am really saying is it's not allways clear why kids start on the drugs is it !!

[electricblue]

Ray,you doing time isnt really gonna do a lot to help your nephew is it?By that i mean if he's taking the drugs to hide his shame,might he take them to hold back the guilt that he will feel if his uncle does time for him?
He has absolutely NOTHING to be ashamed about,believe me,,,,,,,?

[raysparx1]

What you gotta do electric ? sit back and watch him kill himself ? this bloke is scum, he served just over a year for abusing about 20 kids, I just feel for the lad, I don't intend getting caught, but if I do, well so be it, my sister is in real pain with this,iv'e never seen her so bad,it hurts me, Ray xx

[noxlumos]

Ray mate, don't be doing anything daft to this bloke as it really won't help your nephew it'll just add to his own feeling of guilt you being inside, and prison is no fun my friend.
Your nephew is taking drugs for the same reason I used to except in my case my father beat me badly, and there are ways for him to learn to control his fear, shame, anger and frustration without using drink or drugs as a prop.
I use them myself and they are very effective and very empowering and used in con junction with a rehab programme work very well even for serious addictions.
He'll need you on the outside if he's into drugs at the moment so don't be going after this nonce and getting a trip to the big house, it'll just make it all so much worse.

[raysparx1]

Cheers nox,

You allways speak sense, I know what you are saying is right,but I feel knotted in my guts, I have so much anger in me, I wish the lad would talk,but he just says i'm ok, I don't want to talk about it, it's like it masks it, if he would talk and let us know how he feels, and what he feels, it might help him, Thanks for your advice, and you electric, you feel like true friends, Ray

[rugeleyboy]

dont do nowt silly r ray!!!