why are men so heartless?

[Minxie]

Had a bit to drink.... but anyway, why are men so heartless?

[dantheman123]

I think we men have to be a bit heartless in order to survive in the world. I consider that Im in competition with every single other man for women, money, status. There are many men out there who would gladly take me for everything I have just for the fun of it. Its Darwinian natural selection. Even though I have this opinion I try to be kind and hope Im one of the good guys.
If your asking why men are heartless to women its almost always a power trip due to feelings of inadequacy.

[Roughquest]

Wow - thats very heavy dantheman - but i can understand what you mean...also its a fact that men do not think on the same emotional level as woman do - therefore we instantly judge a guy for not getting in touch/texting/phoning etc etc, when they think they are not doing anything wrong, and we should just chill out lol....its best to feel sorry for the men really, bless them for they know not what they do....

[wazzaa]

hi babe, it's because they are generally Neanderthals. But if you're serious, then try reading and applying 'Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus'. Not that it's a good plot but it gives a little insight to what men are all about. This is meant as a very general thing, nothing specific. Good luck x

[Minxie]

A bit late in responding, sorry. But thank you all for your replies and comments. Not all men are heartless. Bit of a sweeping statement from me. Sorry if I offended.

Sia, good luck to you. And lets hope my whinging about my relationship is now FINISHED! xxx

[filthiestfis]

Sorry for budging in Minxie- MY DATE UPDATE (from my friday thread) if anybody cares.....

I texted my date today "Hi how are you? You have been soooooo quiet lately... :I "

and got back this text about an hour later "Hi sweets"
:I I reckon that was a ****-poor effort and its all over :(

[Minxie]

you can butt in filthiestfis.... sorry didnt read your post... but will listen and try to help if I can.