why are men so heartless?

[Minxie]

Had a bit to drink.... but anyway, why are men so heartless?

[filthiestfis]

men heartless? I would give anything for an honest, faithful woman in my life grrrrrrr I am the one that posted about the blind date yesterday and heard nothing from her since thursday.

[Neenee]

oh i missed that thread..... filthiest....

have you contacted her???

[steviep165]

we arnt heartless minxie. i have the heart of a sensitive poet. i keep it in a jar on my desk!!

[mccfluff]

errr wish i could say the same but its always been me

[Neenee]

minxie....

whats happened for you to say that??

[Minxie]

filthiestfis, I am a honest faithful woman. But it got me nowhere.

[boink]

if anything women are heartless, i haven't met one yet that hasn't just said "blah its over" and thought nothing of it

[Neenee]

minxie, im the same, im a nice person, and ive been **** on in the past..... :-(((((((

[Minxie]

Neenee............doesnt it f*ck you up!.....geez, you do your best. But it aint good enough.

boink, you have obviously met the wrong women.

[Neenee]

i dont feel angry about it, just let down i guess that i can give someone so much of what they wanted and what they were looking for and it all just be thrown back at me.

[JustSia]

Minxie, tell me about it. Some just haven't got a clue, yet they still spin it like it's our fault. Hang on there babe! Am sure you'll be fine just don't let it get you down so much.

All the best. S.

[Minxie]

I feel let down too neenee But get angry about it also.

[Neenee]

has this all happened with you recently minxie, or a while ago

[Minxie]

Thanks sia. Yes, always our fault. Never theirs! I try not to let it get me down......but it does

[Minxie]

neenee...i typed in tonight my profile, and read my questions. Its been going on for ages! and yet I keep hanging on. I was never this pathetic years ago. But look it now

[filthiestfis]

minxie my sister says that men are dumb but loveable like dogs and that women really are cold, calculating and manipulative and that she would rather be friends with guys cos of the bitchiness.
So as far as men being heartless, I dont think that they are not anymore than women are.

[filthiestfis]

yeah neenee- still waiting for the girl i went on a blind date with on thursday to show signs of life. She must be very busy indeed. Possibly with some other date, who really knows? She just totally convinced me that everything was fab-in fact she told me so. *sigh* All I want is honesty, NOT LIES!!!!

[freak_unique]

aw hope ur ok men just are so cold :\ thats why i like my women heh :p

[JustSia]

Minxie, I had to walk away from the bloke who I like quite a bit. Everyone says how you shouldn't try and change your partner. But what happens when he doesn't even know what he is doing wrong. I waited and hoped but the epiphany never struck so I had to stand back and decide whether I could put up with it for any longer and I just didn't think I could. I regret it and miss him terribly, keep starring at his name on MSN and can't bring myself to deleting it, hoping he would call, say sorry, but I know he won't because it's one thing that he just doesn't do. I can't tell you what to do. I have seen you pretty unhappy in here before and it really struck a cord coz you were one of the first people I talked to in here. Still one day you'll decide yourself on what to do and once you do you'd feel stronger for it and be ok. Good luck.

[country_boy]

We're not all heartless - some of us just don't respond well to having something on a plate. Be aloof and make the guy feel lucky to be with you, don't be too obvious - hold back if you can.
I don't mean play games, but just don't be all his for the taking. Hope that makes sense/helps