Wife is too demanding!!!!!!1

[DrChandra]

My wife of many many many years is very demanding.She says I am not romantic enough.I give her chocolates and flowers but she saya they are not personal enough I give her a poem and she comlains because I did not write it.I say I love you but she says I say it so much it has lost its meaning! I mean what am I supposed to do??????? Any ideas for an end to this problem.

[hammerman]

It's illegal under the countryside and wildlife act to pick wild flowers.

She needs a bloody good slap m8 !!!

[pie+mash]

When you go on holiday to India (like you said you were going to do - when you first joined AB), leave her behind - in India!!

[regulators]

do something different mate buy a tent and go camping or something there is 1000s of things to do out there i trhink your stuck in a rut and need something to give you 2 a boost

[Hellion]

I've been trying to think of some romantic things to do that you will be comfortable with too.

Buy her a heart shaped rainbow maker (I defy anyone to not love that) they fill a room with beautiful rainbows

http://www.prezzybox.com/products/index.aspx?p id=2795

Sprinkle cress seeds on the lawn in the shape of a heart or the words 'I love You'

Ask her to meet you in a pub/restaurant and then chat her as if you were on a date.

Try and remember some of the places you used to go when you were courting and take her back there.

Have a rose named after her

http://www.ultimategifts.co.uk/a_rose_named_af ter_you%20buy%20now.htm

Hope these ideas help.

[Eve]

Or name a star after her or adopt an animal or a child or family in an impoverished country for her.

[Eve]

Remember non standard anniversaries such as when you first met, your engagement and such and mark it out of the blue with a memento or something eg drive her to where you had your first date as a suprise, hire the firstmovie you saw together or a card with a picture or something like that.

[crete]

DOC she is fed up with you and wants a younger more virile partner. sorry .

[Eve]

Try here...
http://www.snappysnaps.co.uk/Our_services_page .html

They do some lovely ideas such as putting photos on canvas and photo restoration to do something with special photos.

Why not create your first date if you had one or your honeymoon?

[Eve]

Or recreate your engagement and ask her if she would like you to renew your vows?

Sorry, you've got me going now :)

[crete]

im really disappointed in the DOC he used to give out medical advice on this site but recently all he can discuss is his relationship with his partner, has he maybe lost his confidence ? some men do go through this stage at certain times in their lives.

[redcrx]

Cretes right Doc,
why havent you answered any of the medical questions recently.
I know youre retired but surely a bit of advice wouldnt go amiss. Or have you forgotten everything you learnt at med school??

[auzzie]

Pick some more wild flowers, cook a nice candlelit meal, and then propose all over again.
After 42 years, you must be doing something right, even if you are only there for her to "pick" on. Something tells me that you probably like that.......just a little bit : )

[crete]

deaf ears .......redcrx ?

[redcrx]

pardon crete? ..........lol

Perhaps no-one else has seen the other stuff and all the great advice the doc has given :)

[crete]

i think we are the only ones at the moment who remember the DOCs excellent advice, its a great pity he will be sadly missed by all .

[redcrx]

is he leaving? Aww shame, I really enjoy reading the excellent advice given to some :)

[RATTER15]

A decree absolute is fairly personal!!

[crete]

cheeky chappie is back i see, ?

[wolf63]

if she was really naffed off with you she would have up and left you years ago.

Romance is okay, but a reliable guy who cares is hard to find.

You seem a nice couple. People are different.

Remember that she can't nag you into being romantic, sort of defeats the purpose.

[RATTER15]

crete, I dont know what you mean!!