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4getmenot. That was so kind to think of me.
It was just so awful but I told my counsellor how I had felt and she was excellent. Took things really slowly. There were parts I couldn't address but I think that I will hopefully get there in the future.
I have had plenty to take my mind off things. This morning my hubby woke up with a sore calf . Muscular he said. So I had a look and found a nice warm swollen calf. Told him to see gp urgently. She sent him straight for a scan and tonight he has been started on heparin and warfarin for his rather large dvt !He is a fit, health bloke who unfortunately has to spend too much time driving his car whilst at work.
Never rains but it pours eh ?
I have never felt that so many things could possibly go wrong in such a short space of time.