long distance relationships

[archhippy]

Right i've going out with this boy for about 3 may be 4 years and its along distance relationship its working realy well i was just wondering if any one else has had this experiance or maybe bad ones.i not being nosy its just everyones saying its wrong to have lasted soooo long!

[laurentwink]

Ok, here are my questions to you... 1. do you see each other quite alot? (at weekends and/or during the week?) 2. Does he live far away from you? 3. Do you get tempted in other boys when you don't see him? I'm asking you this because my best mate lives 30 miles away from her bloke, they've jst got engaged and are very happy indeed so ask your self these questions and answer me back and let me know. Good luck babe! x

[archhippy]

Laurentwink 1 no i dont see him alot last saw him christmas 2 he lives the other side worcster sorry i cant spell it i live in somerset the back end of beyond and 3 yes i do get tempted but i only window shop because most people concider my family freaks we have a goth a vicar and a hippy/minister only me sisters 'normal'. tell your mate congrats and good luck. i cant wait to see him 6 weeks and counting.

[ANUSHIKA]

My friend has been engaged for 4 years to a girl he met on the net she lives in the usa and he lives in the uk. she comes over for a dew weeks a year and he goes over there.At the end of the day as long as your happy with it then who cares what other people think.

[El21]

Hi doodlebug; infact yourself and the other opinions here just might be the thing I need to help me. I'm in Kent and my boyf whom I met on a plane coming back from Italy(!)lives in Suffolk. We've known each other for 2 years come October. We went out in October 2002 - but I ended it 6 months later as the distance was too much (it's only 2 hours drive for him, but it's long enough when you feel the way I do). We chatted on the ohone and did not meet again until April this year. We felt really close and went the furthest we had ever gone before. Now 3 months later I feel the same worry and panick I had before. He says he feels much more for me this time than a year and a half ago, but regards to laurentwinks questions - my answers to the last two are yes. I hate to say it (I meant No.3), but I get so jealous when he mentions his other friends (most of them sre female). The reason why I worry is because I feel that while I am here, they may try stabbing their claws into him. I've never been to Suffolk - next August Bank Holiday - but I do worry about him loosing his feelings and moving on. I feel so much for him, and so this is the only reason i can give for my anxieties...what does everyone else think??