PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!! Should I move out so he'll believe me??

[Willow22]

Should I move out?
My Problem is this:

When I was in primary school I fell in love with a boy called Skye

But then when it came too high school, he got sent to a private all boy's school far away and I got sent to the local comprehensive.

Then my Grandma died

Because of all these things(the death of my Grandma, the loss of Skye and also the uncaring attituse at home) I began to feel very depressed.

Then I made a TERRIBLE mistake:

i started to refuse to go to school. this carried on for the next three years until finally I stopped going altogether. I got G grades in my GCSE (apart from a C grade in English)
However this is my problem:

I am now 17. I have found out Skye is studying A levels at a top sixth form...and thers is a VERY VERY strong liklihood that we will bump int each other . I still love him..and feel that I would die of shame when I tell him what I did and that I have no GCSEs. He'll think I'm a complete low-life.

I don't think I can bear to face Skye at all.... and so.......
i HAVE DEEPLY CONSIDERED going to Wales and living in a Foyer/hostel there................... so that I never have to face Skye ever again (because it's inevitable that we'll meet) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS IDEA? I live in England you see...in the North West of England.
Or could I move out to Wales for a few years.....then after a few years in Wales once I've sorted my life out (away from Skye) then come back home/to England again ...and try to find Skye then? Or do you think this is a stupid idea?

PLEASE HELP!!!

[Suzyboo]

Today you have posted 3 posts claiming to be 16, 17 and 18. Your age isn't even that relevant to your (repeated) questions so why lie?
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Jobs_and_Educat ion/Question298812.html
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Travel/Question 305705.html
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Jobs_and_Educat ion/Question307140.html

[noxlumos]

Willow love, that is a STUPID idea. No-one worth their salt will think you are a total lowlife because you got poor GCSE grades.They actually don't matter a jot to the sort of person you are and I'm sure Skye will understand that.
If you bump into him, either avoid the topic of GCSE's altogether, or be dead honest and say "I had a really bad time and was quite ill during my teens and did far worse in my GCSE's than I'd hoped, so I'm having to work really hard to make up for that at the moment." He won't care or think badly of you at all.
17 however is quite young and when you meet him again you might find that the attraction has gone altogether anyway.
Don't do anything drastic, hasty or rash. stay where you are, work hard, enjoy yoursel;f and if you meet him, relax and just be who you are because there is nothing mroe attractive in a girl than that.
good luck in all that you do, and never let anyone, real or percieved, make you feel you are a failure, because you are not.You have your whole life ahead of you to do and be whatever you wish.

[RATTER15]

Willow, why dont you stop all the attention seeking and lies!!

Well said Suzyboo!!

[ermintrude35]

...why Wales?...what are you going to do for a job?...what about your family?...this all seems a bit extreme to me, you would probably be even more unhappy miles away from your friends and family in a strange country, skint, and living your life on "what ifs"..... in my opinion it's time to move on love, if you bump into him then you just do, if you don't bump into him , then no big deal, you aint seen him in over 7 years ( according to your previous post about the same subject back in september)...why not go back to college to sit some gcse's if you want to improve your education .... most importantly, make something of yourself for YOU ...not for some boy from way back in the past.....

[wolf63]

my mum always said that if you make up stories you have to have a really good memory or you will trip yourself up.

Remember one day you will need the help of the people on the answerbank and nobody will believe your dilemma and you will get no help.

[muffty]

Fell in love with a boy called Skye in PRIMARY SCHOOL!!!

HELLO?? Grow up for goodness sake!!!!!!!


Another trolling time waster!!

[Willow22]

please that isn't fair. I swear on my life that I am telling the truth. I know it all sound unusual but it's true :'(
Clem

[Hammer Head]

I live in Wales and believe me, nothing you have done could make you feel so low as to come here to live.

[morbidstorm]

The simple answer would be to do some resits at college and make your Grandma proud - don't do it for Skye, do it for you and to prove that you have learnt from your mistakes.

[redcrx]

please not again.
To date we have seen i think about 6 questions relating to skye (also called ian i believe you said) many were removed because you keep going on and on about the same thing.
I doubt that from primary school he will even remember you.
Do something constructive and go and sort out your education and employment before thinking of moving anywhere. You were given lots of advice on that 3 weeks ago and yet you posted the same question again yesterday. You ask for help on here and yet when people take time to find info for you you dont appear to do anything with that info.
How come you were allowed to play truant for so long, i think you said 4 years?

[kate1976]

I don't understand the title of your question, so he'll believe you what?!

I played truant for 6 months, parents ended up in court, I have no GCSEs but I have done further education and all is well in my life in that aspect so if what you say is true then go get yourself an education, forget about skye, if you feel you need to move away then do so but why do you feel the need for this attention??

Maybe you need to get some counselling, a therapist will listen to anything you have to say, truth or not! I wish you luck in your life, I always feel sad for people who tell tales, change your ways now while you're young, if you're scared that your life is too boring hence the reason you lie then maybe you need to get out there and do things that will make you more exciting, we all have boring points in our lives, fact of life!!

One day your lies will trip you up big time and you will end up sad and lonely so as I said, change your ways!!