Jealousy

[filthiestfis]

Are any of you jealous types? Have you ever done something as a result that you have later regretted?

[havinmysay]

when i was 17 my bf finished me to get back with his ex i knew where she lived so me and a mate pulled his windscreen wipers off his car about a month later the police turned up at my house sayin he had reported me but also acused me of nickin his wheel trim which i didn't do luckily i got off with a warnin

[filthiestfis]

thats blollocks though. Without any proof how could they issue you with a warning? That could have been anyone.

[havinmysay]

ok then maybe a warnin was the wrong word. they told me to stay away from them

[filthiestfis]

police are useless here.

[havinmysay]

why are they useless

[Carakeel]

My partner never gives me any reason to be jealous, nor do I ever give him such a reason. I am proud of the fact that the girls in the company he works for really like him and he gets along with everyone there. I wouldn't want it any other way. And I love the fact that other women I know think he is lovely too. He never lets me feel anything other than that he loves me and that he is mine. So no, I am not jealous just proud!

[noxlumos]

Likewise Carakeel, I'm never jealous of my wife and she is never jealous of me.I wouldn't want to be with anyone if I didn't trust and respect them.

[raysparx1]

I am not jealous and thankfully never have been.

[Llamatron]

I'm the jealous type. At least I think this was jealousy.
I kinda fell for a girl I work with, but for various reasons I knew nothing could ever come of it. When we talked I'd be on cloud nine, no depression I was in could survive those blue eyes and that sparkling smile. So I was stuck in unrequited love limbo.

Every time I saw her on her mobile I would wonder who she was talking to, was it a new boyfriend? She had many friends of both sexes and when I saw her trotting out to lunch with a male friend I would feel like I'd died, could this be her new bloke?
I was once out on a job with a couple of colleagues and we passed a hotel in town. One said 'Didn't X stay there once'. I put two and two together. My heart sank, it felt like I'd been kicked in the stomach. I spent the rest of the car journey with my fingers in my ears. I never knew it could cause actual physical pain.

This was pretty much how it was everyday for well over a year. Then she did get herself a new boyfriend. Some scumbag she met on holiday.
When I figured it out I couldn't stand it any more and I asked her. She told me what she knew I wanted to hear, that he was just a friend. But I knew.
When I told the only person I had confided in about it I was fighting back tears. This was not a happy time in my life. Still isn't.

Jealousy is a bad thing.

[filthiestfis]

Llamatron I have felt the same way in similar situations to your one several times before and am currently going through it again. Its eating a whole in my f**king stomach

[Llamatron]

Filthiestfis, other than finding someone else to obsess over or get another job and never see her again, I don't know what to say to help. Sorry.
Apparently a problem shared is a problem halved, but I never felt any better having shared how I felt. I just felt like the worlds biggest fool. Still do.