I think this will be one for the girls!

[curly~sue]

Hello everybody!

I consider myself pretty clued up about sex, etc. but a friend of mine has me a bit confused. She slept with man a couple of days ago and we were gossiping about it, as you do. She said to me that she came but didn't orgasm.

I'm 23 and not usually dense, but is it only me that that doesn't make sense to?

Thank you.

[B00]

Errrrm, thought it was the same thing???

[admarlow]

no, actually some girls ejaculate before they orgasm, or don't orgasm at all but still ejaculate.

[liquidspace]

Its the same thing, maybe she wasnt sure what she was talking about?

[whiffey]

It sounds as though she had a few localised spasms, very pleasant, but not an all-over shuddery screamy happening.

[curly~sue]

That's exactly what I thought Boo!

[admarlow]

google female ejaculation (if you are not at work!!) lol

[crete]

why would you be discussing orgasms with anyone is there nothing private anymore.?

[B00]

Aint gonna Google it, I'm far too squeamish and it'll put me off me dinner!

But I honestly wasn't aware there was a difference.....well ya learn summet new everyday don't ya?!

crete all women, especially close friends discuss their private life..............

[crete]

no boo ALL women dont thankfully some women are too mature to discuss very intimate details

[admarlow]

Ive had a couple of ex's who did it! and that would account for being able no come but not orgasm.

[4getmenot]

see thats the thing BOO I hear my mates talking and loaughing about some things they've done but I've founda as I've got older I would never discuss it with mates, if you have that one person you're very close to isnt it just nice to keep all that between you and him.

[China Doll]

Let me know the answer too please.... I thought the same as you and Boo....

Honestly, you take a vow of celebacy for a little while and everything b100dy changes when you come back...like riding a bike my ar$e ;0)

[Champagne]

There are lots of different variations on a theme here. Some women on this planet will only ever experience one sort of orgasm, which is usually the clitoral orgasm. Therefore, in their opinion, an orgasm is an orgasm.

However, you can have the following:-

- clitoral orgasm
- vaginal orgasm
- ejaculation (without orgasm or muscular spasms)
- ejaculation (with muscular spasms_
- all of the above

Supposedly all us girls can achieve everything on that list if we practice. Personally, I've only ever discovered two of these.... Doesn't stop me practicing though!! ;o)

[Champagne]

p.s. crete, if you don't want to partake in these sorts of intimate discussions then get off the thread love!!! Bet you're secretly intrigued though... :ob

[4getmenot]

Oh no I'm not gonna be in trouble for actually agreeing with crete for once am I :-)

[admarlow]

^^^^^lol champagne

[curly~sue]

What's the problem, crete? Surely it can only be a good thing that two friends are so close they can discuss anything. It wasn't a group discussion, she is my closest friend.

With respect, maybe it's a generational thing?

[curly~sue]

Thank you, Champagne

[happygam]

Note to boo....I am a very mature, 32 year old lady, and I always discuss things with me best mate, cos we aint shy...we don't have a little giggle over stuff like girls would in a school playground - fortunately, that is the friendship we have - should try it...it is nice to be open and to be proud!! Thankfully, I can do both!!!

[China Doll]

Blimey Champers, and you wonder why I call you 'the expert.' ;0)

I swear I missed all the meetings about these things... I must have been reading with the music on too loud again... sigh.