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Hello everybody!
I consider myself pretty clued up about sex, etc. but a friend of mine has me a bit confused. She slept with man a couple of days ago and we were gossiping about it, as you do. She said to me that she came but didn't orgasm.
I'm 23 and not usually dense, but is it only me that that doesn't make sense to?
Thank you.
I consider myself pretty clued up about sex, etc. but a friend of mine has me a bit confused. She slept with man a couple of days ago and we were gossiping about it, as you do. She said to me that she came but didn't orgasm.
I'm 23 and not usually dense, but is it only me that that doesn't make sense to?
Thank you.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I think the confusion is that when men ejaculate they generally reach orgasm and call it cumming/coming.
Therefore that word is synonymous with orgasm as well as ejecualtion.So as the majority of women don't ejaculate, just reach orgasm they call that cumming /coming as well.
Therefor ( again), cumming will mean orgasm for women who don't ejaculate, and ejaculation for those that do, hence the ladies above confusion. Depends whether the females speaking ejaculate or not as to what the word means to them personally, although I'm sure there's an official and authoritive text on it somewhere.
Does ANY of that makes sense?
Therefore that word is synonymous with orgasm as well as ejecualtion.So as the majority of women don't ejaculate, just reach orgasm they call that cumming /coming as well.
Therefor ( again), cumming will mean orgasm for women who don't ejaculate, and ejaculation for those that do, hence the ladies above confusion. Depends whether the females speaking ejaculate or not as to what the word means to them personally, although I'm sure there's an official and authoritive text on it somewhere.
Does ANY of that makes sense?
Ok now I'm gonna get abuse but this is my opinion, if my bloke discussed our sex life with his best mate I would be severely peed off, thats the way I see it so I dont say anything to my mates as he's mates with them too. :-) and personally I'd rather not know how many times my best mate came. yuk :-)
To be fair I'd not discuss what goes on with my wife and I in gory detail with all and sundry, but I've no objection to generally discussing past recreational sexual expereinces, so yeah sometimes sex is just a sport and can be chatted about liberally, and sometimes it's deeper and shouldn't be discused.
Basically, it is each to ones own...what you do and what I do is up to myself or you - I just know that I am someone who aint frightened to talk to my best mate about personal stuff, problems I may have - I am not immature - i matured in my teens...we are in the year 2006...times have changed...and thankfull, women have toooo!! Thank goodness....!!
I really don't understand the problem, if I'm honest. Why is there a limit on the subjects my friend and I can discuss? I'm fully aware it's a private issue, which, as I said, is why it was not talked about within a group of people.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm offended that because we're open enough to discuss PARTS of our sex lives, it means I'm immature.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm offended that because we're open enough to discuss PARTS of our sex lives, it means I'm immature.
In all honesty, crete, I don't think it would worry me. I just presume that they do. After all, I would say the majority of people have a sex life and it sort of helps you learn about new things, doesn't it?
I'm not saying people who don't talk about it are in any way wrong, it's down to the individual and what they're comfortable with.
I'm not saying people who don't talk about it are in any way wrong, it's down to the individual and what they're comfortable with.