hi guys have a romantic night in tonight with my fella, i want some sexy unusual ideas on how to be more in the mood!! (i dont mean sex positions etc. etc,.) things like candles chocolate and marshmellows. tia xxx
Games. Treasure hunt with you as the treasure. Hide little cocolates round the room every time you find one take off another item of clothing until there's only one place the last one can be.....:)
Don't feed him to much stodgy stuff or he'll get sleepy before the big event!
Get his favourite drink in (but not too much or it'll turn out to be the soft option - lol)
Put some 'making out' music on (so Megadeath is out!!) suggest Marvin Gaye's 'after the dance' album mmmmm smooth!
Do you usually dress in something special for him? If not get some new undies and treat him to a visual (men are very visual creatures) - if you do usually dress up then this time just wear a dress with nothing on under it - the shock on discovering this will have the desired effect!
Candles are ok but he's a man, so don't expect him to notice or comment, but if he does remark on them it's a bonus.
enjoy yourself and good luck
Ive always found opening the door wearing nothing but knee high boots and some undies does the job, have the marshmallows and choccies after for desert :)
These answers just show how different men are from woman. Most men are not aroused by candles, chocolate or, in the eloquent words of MORELLO, fu#@in' marshmellows.
Most men want rude and dirty! Now, if you could think of some "creative" uses for the candles, chocolate and fu#@in' marshmellows, that might do the trick.
Actually.... you could have the best of both worlds. Make up a bed in the living room, then candles, soft music, sexy undies, melted chocolate... but then I really am gonna go with the guys and say, put some porn on! It'll be good for both of you then.
(BTW, the sexy music won't interfere with the porn, just put that on mute as the story lines can be quite hard to follow and you don't want to get distracted!)
If I've got chocs or marshmallows no ruddy way am I sharing them!
Most men aren't into slushy romance, so why bother? Stick some porn on, that way you get the bonuses without having to put any effort into it whatsoever.
Try playing 'twister' NAKED. After a bottle of wine One of the best nights in i have ever had :o) (best if its just you and your partner though) unless your into swinging that is.