to be the best father I can to my son,
to be the best substitute dad I can be to my partners son,
to be the best partner/son/brother/uncle/friend that I can be.
to learn as much as possible,
to experience as much as possible,
to admit (and rectify) my faults as much as possible,
to embrace truth as I see it and to reject falsity where I see it,
to be prepared to admit that im wrong regarding my ideas of truth/falsity and being prepared to adapt accordenly,
accepting that this is the ONLY life that we can be certain of and making the most of it for myself and my loved ones,