then you are one in a million ummmm, every woman i've ever know has run away like linford christie with a rocket up his backside when confronted with our fly eating friends
To be fair, it's not only women who are afraid of spiders, when i was in afghanistan we had a guy from the RAF who cried like a girl (no offence to girls) if you even mentioned spiders, he couldnt even look at a picture of one but he came over all shaky, (gave us a laff tho)
I am the spider catcher in our house and the moth catcher and the numerous other insects catcher as my husband and 15 year old son are both frightened of them all! Men eh, who really needs em???? LOL
I live with two other guys so it tends to stay up most of the time, from a practical point as much as anything else. Why put it down when we all need it up to pee?
Leave the seat up when in use, and put the seat down afterwards.
Why would you want to see where your wee and poo went unless you have serious attachment issues and cannot say goodbye! Close the lid!