morals

[curlyfilm]

do you think people should give their moral opinion, instead of answering a question asked, if i asked where i should take girls aloud, sarah beeny, page 5's keely or fern britan for a night of passion where me wife would not find out, and what excuse i could use to escape for the night? do you think i'd like an answer or peoples moral opinion

[rugeleyboy]

i would give you an honest opinion on the subject!!!

how are you gonna get out for the night???? thats the tricky one !!

[raysparx1]

Nobody has the right to tell anybody else how to live, live your own life and let others do the same, I would say you want a proper answer not to be told how wrong it would be, purely my humble opinion of course.

[PinkFizz]

I think that you should get an answer and not a moral opinion. Life is too short hun.xx

[whiffey]

If you ask a question containing moral issues, and incidentally taking the pi$$ out of other ABers views, then you should expect flak.

1) Where should I take Cat Deeley for a night out ?

2) Where should I take Cat Deeley for a night out without my wife finding out ?

Two different questions.

[maggie01]

In an ideal world, people would just answer your question. We don't live in an ideal world and people have opinions which they quite readily give.

[Pea Pod]

If you could aford to take that lot out I want to come as well.

[rugeleyboy]

but yet still a question whiffster!!

[noxlumos]

How is it a p1ss take whiffey to ask a question? This I assume refers to jellybaby's question yesterday where she got a right mauling from the moral minority for asking a perfectly sensible question. I don't see that she "took the p1ss" out of anyone's beliefs, she just asked a question and no you shouldn't answer with your own morals to the fore. either answer the question and be helpful or don't answer it.

[daisy48]

Take my MIL out for the night curlyfilm and dont bring her back!!!!!!

[curlyfilm]

noxlumos, yes that post did come to mind, but i can think of many others where people have done something and ask for advice, only to be given the third degree about what they have done, not what they should do now

how olds your mil daisey, can i have a pic.........

[whiffey]

Nox, we are destined to differ, but no problem. Around the same time you said you were happy for you and your wife to discuss your intimate sex life in public online with other ABers. As you wish, that is totally alien to me.

Moral Minority ? Well I will accept Moral, but not Minority.

And yes, if a question is posed in such a way as to raise moral issues but then to carp on when people address them, it is very weak and a pi$$-take to criticise them for 'not answering the question'

[ummmm]

We probably shouldn't curly but sometimes it's hard not to.

[noxlumos]

I have actually never said, Whiffey, that my wife and I are "happy to discuss intimate deatails of our private sex lives", I believe I said that my wife is calm, sensible and would not become enraged or hysterical at the thought that sex was being discussed after you implied that anyone who wasn't morally outraged at the idea was in some way of a lower standard than yourself. Slight difference in the spin you chose to put on it, however...
I think you just enjoy harping on and on about your flaming values which are repressive, morally repugnant actually in their desire to stifle other people's beliefs and so arrogant in your assumption that you and your Holy book's teachings are right that for those of us that do not agree it makes very unpleasant reading. It is not illegal to sleep with someone married to another person, so who the heck do you lot all think you are to judge and denigrate others in the way you do? Even your God warned you against doing that, but you still go right on and do it... Let he who is without sin etc.
Why not just answer the question or leave it alone?

[whiffey]

Nox, that was one LONG angry paragraph !

And who is preaching now ? Yours is the halo, not mine.

[pie+mash]

Well said Nox!!! whiffey has a problem knowing when to be moralistic and when to be smutty - both of which he is surely capable of.

[whiffey]

Hi p+m - supply a link to where I have been offensively smutty please ?

[pie+mash]

Hung like a baboon springs to mind.....

[jump79]

I think if its a factual question, then it deserves an accurate answer. If it's a question asking for opinions or suggestions then of course people are likely to give all sorts of personal thoughts and advice ... not all of them will necessarily be what the poster may want to hear.
Its hard to keep personal feelings aside when answering some questions, but the the poster would not get so defensive either if criticism/ sarcasm were kept to a bare minimum or not used at all

[whiffey]

Crumbs p+m !

You'd better destroy all your Blackadder videos :)