well i think that for that....INITIAL attraction, to get talking etc... it has to be a little bit of pysical attraction, but on the whole, no i agree with hellibobs, its gotta be personality and fantastic sense of humour EVERYTIME i would rather be stuck in a lift with Peter Kay than David Beckham (ps i dont think DB is good looking but had to choose someone to compere) only shallow girls will go for good lookimg shallow men, having said that......... you have to then turn the question on yourself????