do i meet him or forget him?

[bendigedig]

i started chatting to a man on a chatroom years ago and have developed a very close relationship with him, we used to text, email or messenger many times a day. it was very exiting and i think i fell for him, to the point where i couldnt find a partner that made me feel like he did so i've been single for years. the internet guy desperatley wants to meet me, but due to my very low self esteem cannot get the confidence to meet him - he has threatened that he will show up at work until i made him promise not to, anyway i finished it with him a couple of months ago as it was hurting me too much, especially when i went out and got a bit tipsy - id want him too much. he still texts me when he's drunk, begging me to stay in touch, and i cannt stop thinking about him - i wish i could get the confidence to meet him, but im scared - what if he doesnt fancy me/ doesnt like me face to face or if i dont like him? what do you think i should do?

[mycats]

Carakeel thats a lovely story!! Lucky you, both of you, I hope you stay as happy as you are now

ummmm why did you mention Ratter? am i missing something? lol

[ummmm]

Thats who shes talking about, the lovely ratter

[mycats]

aaaaaaaaaaaaawwww that is noce, I knew he sounded like a nice guy

[mycats]

Ahem *nice* lol

[bendigedig]

thanks for all your advice - i have seen photo's of him and he's seen one of me, im in mid wales and he's in london so it would be hard to just meet up for a coffee as it would mean staying over in london and be awkward - he really does feel like the one and like many of you have said nothing ventured, i did say for a while that i didnt want to risk loosing our friendship, but as ive stopped contact - ive lost him anyway, so maybe i will in the new year - sod it and go for it! thanks again for all the encouragment! xxx

[China Doll]

Oh just text him now... By saying you'll doi it in the new year you're just putting it off cause you're scared... come on, text him now, get your phone out while you're reading this! Do it... Come on...