moving on

[pollycupcake]

What is the best way to get over your man dumping you?
All replies appreciated......Pol xx

[ELVIS68]

Get on with your life and don`t let him see that it`s bothered you....Good Luck

[pollycupcake]

thanks Elvis xx

[curlylfim]

just enjoy your new found freedom do what you want when you want, and let him think you are not bothered,

[StewyGriffin]

You are the the most important thing in your life, not him. His loss is your gain.

Life is to be lived, live it and live it well.

[pollycupcake]

thanks curly and stewy, but what if he is still in "your head"? how do I flush it out? xx

[StewyGriffin]

I'd love to tell you that time heals all. It does, but that won't help you. You are always the sum of your parts. Your family and friends will help you through, it won't be a miracle cure, but love from those that you know will always be there helps. It helped me, even when i thought it wasn't helping.

[curlylfim]

time...............helps most things

or new and improved boy friend

[ummmm1]

Hey, I remember you...If you want the honest truth (in my humble opinion) get your arse back out there, have a good time, meet new men have your snogs and have fun....thats it....

[Katie~77]

Spoil yourself rotten! Buy the best of everything, just for yourself!x

[wendilla]

Everyone that has replied to you is right.I would just like to add if he has dumped you he is not worth bothering about just get on with your life.Just let your friends be there for you .All the best for 2007

[zimzam]

You have to consider that he had no taste and he is the looser. Its his loss and you can do so much better - remember that!

[WendyS]

Try to treat it as one of life's inevitable disappointments and envisage some worse situations that might have occurred instead, like being diagnosed with cancer , being involved in a road accident and permanently crippled, losing your job or your home or your life savings, or having a much loved member of your family die suddenly.
It's hurtful, but not the end of the world and almost certainly in time somebody else who appreciates you more will come along to fill the void.