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My girlfriend is pregnant and doesnt want it or me
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Me and my ex girlfriend have had rocky rides together.
We fell out numerous times and most recently we had a big fall out, that was, until she sent me a text message on my mobile telling me she was pregnant and sending me a picture of the pregnancy test. She has told me she does not want to keep it, but many times has she given much desire to keep it. We broke up last night because of many complications. She told me hurtful things, mainly because of problems such as me being unemployed. I am having to do so much to get my life in order, but I am confused as to her plans. As I know her quite well, I think she has maternal feelings for our baby. But, she tells me she wants an abortion and to never see me again; knowingly, one would believe she has totally made a prerogative on the issue and I am the only loser. I don't know what to do, she wants space and I am going to have to give her some. I think it's a defense mechanism because of many of the things that complicated our relationship, such as me being possessive etcetera.
We fell out numerous times and most recently we had a big fall out, that was, until she sent me a text message on my mobile telling me she was pregnant and sending me a picture of the pregnancy test. She has told me she does not want to keep it, but many times has she given much desire to keep it. We broke up last night because of many complications. She told me hurtful things, mainly because of problems such as me being unemployed. I am having to do so much to get my life in order, but I am confused as to her plans. As I know her quite well, I think she has maternal feelings for our baby. But, she tells me she wants an abortion and to never see me again; knowingly, one would believe she has totally made a prerogative on the issue and I am the only loser. I don't know what to do, she wants space and I am going to have to give her some. I think it's a defense mechanism because of many of the things that complicated our relationship, such as me being possessive etcetera.
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I've told him where to start, hun...
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q=anger+m anagement&btnG=Google+Search&meta=cr%3Dcountry UK%7CcountryGB
I thought I was being quite helpful. :o(
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q=anger+m anagement&btnG=Google+Search&meta=cr%3Dcountry UK%7CcountryGB
I thought I was being quite helpful. :o(
You are hapless fools living your times on the internet, either looking at gay porn or child porn or wikipedia. I am very much educated, judging from my posts and I have a brilliant CV online. Also I was home-schooled for many years and acquired the distaste for people like chavs and people who assumed to be greater than myself. My girlfriend also possesses a high IQ. The amount of stupid implications some of you throw at me is rather bemusing. I mean, seriously do any of you have anything original and interesting to share with me, or is it your dire little mouths that keep getting the better of your minds?
'Interesting to share with you'? Are you looking for anecdotes? I thought you had come here to cry about your dumb@ss situation... AGAIN!
Seriously, if you're that intelligent why are you having such a hard time finding a job? Especially with your excellent CV?! Why does your girlfriend hate having you around?
You're a plank (or axle, bail, balk, bolster, boom, brace, cantilever, column, crossbar, crosspiece, girder, jamb, joist, lath, lintel, pile, piling, pillar, plank, pole, post, prop, rafter, reach, scaffolding, scantling, shaft, sill, spar, stanchion, stay, stringer, strip, strut, stud, timber, transverse, trestle). Sort it out.
Seriously, if you're that intelligent why are you having such a hard time finding a job? Especially with your excellent CV?! Why does your girlfriend hate having you around?
You're a plank (or axle, bail, balk, bolster, boom, brace, cantilever, column, crossbar, crosspiece, girder, jamb, joist, lath, lintel, pile, piling, pillar, plank, pole, post, prop, rafter, reach, scaffolding, scantling, shaft, sill, spar, stanchion, stay, stringer, strip, strut, stud, timber, transverse, trestle). Sort it out.
Haha, while joko jokes around with his original comments, as they are the only toys he has in the playground, wonderwoman and red attempt to compromise with me about why I can't find work. I also see whiskey attempt to dissolute the situation by throwing an array of words at me she got from a dictionary which is ironically as sad as joko playing with his action man toys he still plays with. I worked previously for a software company and distributed coded software to clients. NEXT!
I didnt ask what you did before, I asked why is it you are unable to find work with your fantastic CV????
Maybe if you got up off your behind and looked for a job, you may be able to move on with your life and forget about your ex girlfriend. Its quite simple really and I would have thought someone of your intelligence could have figured that out for himself.
Maybe if you got up off your behind and looked for a job, you may be able to move on with your life and forget about your ex girlfriend. Its quite simple really and I would have thought someone of your intelligence could have figured that out for himself.
ooh good one!
you got me shivering all over with that one!
like i said, learn english properly.
what is ironic about what you said?
dissolute = overindulging in physical pleasures in a way or to an extent that is considered immoral or harmful
you just make yourself sound even more idiotic when you use the wrong words.
and by the way, smartarrse, i am female, so your incredibly inciteful attempt to psychoanalyse me failed miserably.
you got me shivering all over with that one!
like i said, learn english properly.
what is ironic about what you said?
dissolute = overindulging in physical pleasures in a way or to an extent that is considered immoral or harmful
you just make yourself sound even more idiotic when you use the wrong words.
and by the way, smartarrse, i am female, so your incredibly inciteful attempt to psychoanalyse me failed miserably.
The only ironic thing is that you don't get irony!
All the other words I posted were alternatives for the word 'plank'. We can all refer to a Thesaurus, dummy.
Nope, I'm not trying to 'dissolute' (haha, tw@t!) the situation. I couldn't give a toss whether anything I post upsets you. You're a moron.
If you're so intelligent, why do you have such a problem comprehending what AB is actually about? How about answering a question, also? Why can't you get a job with your brilliant C.V?
Ain't rocket science, is it?
All the other words I posted were alternatives for the word 'plank'. We can all refer to a Thesaurus, dummy.
Nope, I'm not trying to 'dissolute' (haha, tw@t!) the situation. I couldn't give a toss whether anything I post upsets you. You're a moron.
If you're so intelligent, why do you have such a problem comprehending what AB is actually about? How about answering a question, also? Why can't you get a job with your brilliant C.V?
Ain't rocket science, is it?
This is an obvious case of 'feminism'. Women are very much inferior to men in the sense that they NEED to try and challenge the brethren. While joko goes in circles with her venting anger with the embellished 'EXTRA ANGER', pippa comes out of nowhere and tries to keep the argument up with her sporting feminism viewpoints. You are quite the narcissistic types and very much lame in how you reason with me. Instead of sympathizing with me, you all are very much challenged with A: my intelligence and B: my personality which answers the AB question perfectly. My girlfriend got pregnant because she wanted a baby and she wants my Deoxyribonucleic acid. You could say, it's a case of genetic proofing :D. No more silly remarks about my IQ from hapless cretins!
