My girlfriend is pregnant and doesnt want it or me

[Patrick19]

Me and my ex girlfriend have had rocky rides together.
We fell out numerous times and most recently we had a big fall out, that was, until she sent me a text message on my mobile telling me she was pregnant and sending me a picture of the pregnancy test. She has told me she does not want to keep it, but many times has she given much desire to keep it. We broke up last night because of many complications. She told me hurtful things, mainly because of problems such as me being unemployed. I am having to do so much to get my life in order, but I am confused as to her plans. As I know her quite well, I think she has maternal feelings for our baby. But, she tells me she wants an abortion and to never see me again; knowingly, one would believe she has totally made a prerogative on the issue and I am the only loser. I don't know what to do, she wants space and I am going to have to give her some. I think it's a defense mechanism because of many of the things that complicated our relationship, such as me being possessive etcetera.

[Pippa68]

Patrick..look at the definition of 'Lamer'. I think you will find it is a word that can be used to describe you perfectly :o)

''I don't care how something works, it just does''.

[rockonbaby]

Okay Patrick, just to settle this whole "intellect" arguement out, can you please answer me these two questions.

1) How many GCSE's did you pass, not which did you do but how many did you get. I wont ask about A Levels cos you mentioned working at a computing company as part of your arguement and i sure you wouldnt have mentioned it if you'd only worked their for a year or less, cos that would be silly and if your 19 you would have been in college for two years after leaving school!

2) How long did you work for the aforementioned company (see I too know big words, bubba!)

and just so its fair I did 10 GCSE's, 1 AS Level, 3 A Levels and have just completed 2 industry exams.

and before you argue Patrick, exams show your willing to learn and better yourself as well as how knowlegable you are!

[Patrick19]

lol. you're all weird

[Pippa68]

Bloody hell ~ idiot boy still here?

Oh yes..it's the only thread he visits.

[Patrick19]

You are all boring old farts.

[Pippa68]

LOL..and running out of insults too.

Can you link me to any other threads you have posted on, puny? you have more time to browse than me.

[Patrick19]

You missus, are a lamer.

[Pippa68]

May be your opinion, but by definition? no.

Considering you can't link me to any other Qs & As you ask or reply to..you are a lamer ;o)

[Patrick19]

Yawn

[rockonbaby]

Its like argueing with a schoolboy!

I get more interesting arguements out of my brother who is younger then you!

Did you actually go to school?

[Salamanda]

I am the unfortunate EX. I have reported this question so I hope it gets removed and Patrick banned, I am going through so much crap right now, Some answers have been quite upsetting, Do not encourage Patrick, the police are involved, he is violent, abusive and a rapist. It is very difficult for people to empathise or make judgement when they do not know the facts. I think AB is a dangerous forum and people are getting hurt. Me getting rid of a child born to that proves my intelligence.

[Patrick19]

I am not your unfortunate ex. Why don't you tell them all how you acted? I even have the logs of you admitting that you were callous. Amanda, the hard thing that nobody can fathom out except you and me, is that we both loved each other. Why do you think we had unprotected sex? It was because we wanted a child together. and it happened. Nobody understands anything anymore, everyone is as dull as each other. Pippa is as moronic as they come!

[Pippa68]

Yes ~ and you are the one who is going to get banned.

Funny how none of us know you except Amanda..and she has summed up the feelings we have about you, Patrick.

Joko is right ~ this is terribly boring, and the fact that you cannot debate in an intelligent manner shows who is the moron on this thread. I will be earning a crust in the coming week, where will you be, Patrick? scrounging off the state no doubt, and crying into your PG Tips.

Amanda ~ well done, love. I hope you manage to get on with your life and you manage to get rid of this imbecilic scum once and for all. This isn't a dangerous forum, and the likes of Patrick are few & far between.

[Patrick19]

It isn't dangerous, why no. Pippa, your ability to rationalize things seems far-fetched especially with the deep frustration that hides behind your writing. So which one of you is right? Pippa denies the fact that this forum is dangerous because her reply wouldn't make much sense without appraisal and secondly my ex is going to be victimized terribly because she is winding herself up amongst a bunch of morons spurting on about how deeply wrong and stupid Patrick is. Ah well, hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!

[Patrick19]

I also have a job. I will be working for Fujikura. The interview was succesful and I will be earning a �20,000 a year salary for a leading Japanese company of fibre-optic cables in chessington. 5 days a week, 35 hours a week. I'm also booking my driving test for 3 weeks and I am contemplating getting my own 1 bedroom apartment. I have MY life sorted out, I have everything going for me. So you could aswell contradict your babble Pippa, as it's lacking nice and slowly.

[ummmm]

wow........what a nice little boy you are

I wonder why your girlfriend wants to get rid of you and your baby.....

[Patrick19]

ummmm, nice attempt to help your buddy. You really are all a bunch of lost souls.

[ummmm]

I'm not helping anyone mate....They are capable of standing up for themselves. You on the other hand are one ignorant, jumped up, pathetic immature fcukwit.

And I think it's past your bedtime.....night night

[Patrick19]

I am such a fcukwit yes. Just like you. It's sad isn't it? A sad circle.