Asking all men here if you watch porn. What is your fascination with porn? I asked my boyfriend and he says its not about the women (phew) but just seeing the physical penetration and act of sex and then imagining that with me. Which makes sense because most men need visual stimulation. By the way this is not because i'm insecure or jealous i'm curious about other mens reasons for why you use porn.
why is porn - �healthy and fun as long as it involves consenting adults�?
what do you mean?
do you mean those fiming the porn or those adults watching it?
thosethat need to involve pronin their lives .... need to ask themselves what they are missing in their life .... by no stretch of the imagination is porn ' healthy '.
definition of healthy<b/>:
Possessing good health.
Conducive to good health; healthful: healthy air.
Indicative of sound, rational thinking or frame of mind: a healthy attitude.
athenae - i think it may be you that has the issues here - that fact you cannot just relax and watch 2 people have sex and leave it at that...you clearly think it is something shameful.
repression is not healthy - especially not in consenting adults.
tictac - it sounds like your reasons for watching it are the same as your boyfriend's - so maybe there's no difference in the way men & women watch porn? Just for visual gratification in the sense of watching sex acts and then using your imagination around it...
Athenae, Porn is healthy and fun, because sex is a natural occurance in most people's lives and adults have a right to have sex with whom they like. If you don't see sex as a joyful experience, and if you find the sight of other people having sex disgusting then that's your issue, but don't try to imply you are the normal one here because you aren't. Everyone else seems to have a sensible view of it.
I'm a woman and I enjoy porn. Like most men, it's purely for the visual stimulation. It's a quick-fix and I'm happy to watch it by myself if I fancy partaking in a bit of 'DIY'. ;o)