Sorry pregnant-s but I have to say that Joe-the-Lion has a point and believe me we've clashed on previous posts. If you pose a question on this site you have to accept the fact that people will answer with opinions that vary from your own. You say 'I don't have a job or anything' as if it is of insignificance whereas surely being able to financially provide for a baby is one of the most important things you can do. I am more than 10 years older than you with a degree and a good job and I still don't think I could provide for a child financially. Also, you get angry to the point of throwing a childish (and I did think quite hard before using that word) strop when faced with a differing opinion. How are you going to stay calm when faced with a child who is screaming at you at 3am even though you've fed it, changed it and cuddled it for hours? If you'd remained calm and said that you appreciated his point of view but would prefer to hear from people with practical advice, fair enough, but you didn't. I'm not judging you and saying you fit a certain stereotype but it doesn't sound to me like you have rationally considered all avenues and arrived at a considered opinion. I will say, however, good luck in whatever you choose because at the end of the day it is up to you - but it is a massive commitment - and I should know, I was brought up in a single parent family.