feel gutted

[Trinny]

I posted on AB about my boyfriend, calling time on our relationship, as he decided he wants to be a free spirt! He rang me last week, and during conversation he let me know that he has registered himself on to on-line dating! And has been out with someone. He told me they kissed. But he kept thinking about me, so he wouldnt see her again.

What I cant absorb is (1) how can he move on so quick? (2) why tell me? When he knew that I still love him?

[lindapinda]

You two keep advising each other ;-)

[curlyfilm]

lol....just give it time, it helps....and posting his details on gay websites, or suchlike helps too, its funny but dont get bitter, just have fun

my optimism, is a chemical inbalance, its like depression, but the complete opposite, i'm just happy no matter what

[Trinny]

Linda, curlyfilm is a married man!

All the best ones are taken lol

[Trinny]

Curlyfilm, I cant be arsed for revenge. Plus he would know it was me! LOL

[lindapinda]

But he's still giving you great advice..thats the main thing :-)

[curlyperm]

hey trinny ................you could always tell him you were going out with me ...........(the female 'curly'??) that would do his head in? heheheheheheh

[Trinny]

Curlyperm........now theres a thought ....tee hee

[Trinny]

yes linda, he seems a lovely caring man

[curlyfilm]

lol.......15 years of spite maybe.........

no due to me job, i have lived with 20 men and been in charge of them, and their agony uncle, so i have heard it all before

ever thoughy of finding what dating site he uses, adding an account and picture, false of course, and playing with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

[lindapinda]

*linda's done her best*...moves offside!!

[Trinny]

That has entered my head Curly, but so many dating sites I wouldnt know where to start!

[Trinny]

Linda, thank you, you have been lovely. Curly is giving me the male perspective on things. And helping me to understand the complications involved!

[lindapinda]

It's a minefield Trinny...Hopefully good things come to good people :-)

[curlyfilm]

dam, thats true, but i'm sure theres a way, maybe he's left a clue, or maybe he uses the site at work,

but believe me, you have had a lucky escape, i have no doubt your an attractive, intelligent woman, a catch for most men, and its not just men, to be honest women atre worst at palying games.....honest ...lol

[Trinny]

Well I will have lots of good things to look forward to then linda. You too, as you sound so lovely.

[curlyfilm]

dam, thats true, but i'm sure theres a way, maybe he's left a clue, or maybe he uses the site at work,

but believe me, you have had a lucky escape, i have no doubt your an attractive, intelligent woman, a catch for most men, and its not just men, to be honest women atre worst at playing games.....honest ...lol

[Trinny]

Curly, I think its his loss. Am blushing at your compliments, (thank you) but yes, I am ok, with a bit of lippy on :)

[lindapinda]

No games here..just sayin Goodnight!!..Look after yourself Trinny..you're too good for him!!

[Trinny]

Night linda, thanks for your help x

[curlyfilm]

lol.......i must be seeing double!

to be honest, i have no idea what you look like or how old you are (i'm 37, just lol) but i always thought most internet users were large boring people over 55, but since i started using this site, not so much recently, i have got to know many of the regulars, and they are not as stereotypical as i hought, and so you are no doubt not

just get out there, and flaunt it.............