monday blues

[salisbury]

i felt so good on the weekend, went out chatted to a few girlies...now monday and

1 of the girls is with a new guy, the other one isnt replyin to my texts.

she said she wants to go for drink with me and gave me her number but i havent heard since.

why do i always seem to miss the boat? everyone says im goodlookin, and im confident enough to chat
wheres it all goin wrong?

am i being hasty? she might have no credit?

[4getmenot]

Because you try to hard, let them find you. When did you text her because maybe she's just busy working or as you said she might have no credit. Or maybe she just found out you were after the other girl too.

[4getmenot]

yep and if she is trying the hard to get she did it will, as its got you thinking about her :-) Maybe this is why you are single, you need to relax, not all girls like a pushy guy, if you try to hard you can come over as a bit desperate.

[legend759]

im sure if she likes ya she will get in touch m8.

if not then maybe she dont really like you and was just being nice.

ig thats the case theres always next weekend

[4getmenot]

ha ha, yes but I had just been dumped, so newly single and having a laugh flirting :-)

[redcrx]

awwww 4get isnt desperate pa__ul! Shes just been let down by a git of a bloke and wanted some reassurance thats all.

salisbury, why not give her a couple of days and then text her again, maybe asking if shes out at the weekend and would she like to meet up. Dont hound her with texts or she may run a mile.

[legend759]

4get me flirting !!!!!


with whom?????


did i miss this??

[4getmenot]

awww pa__ul thats so sweet

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, why do you think that they should fall in love with you just becuase you chatted to them. Firstly, you need to learn to respect a girl. Just because they have a conversation with you, doesnt mean they fancy you. Maybe your confidence is coming across as arrogancy.
Try to slip something in the convo that may suggest if they like you.
Once you get more comfortable around them, and not expect it, you will get loads of attention. Women can sense when a guy is desperate.
Its like the same old thing, 'when you have a girlfriend, you get loads of girls asking you out, but when you dont , you dont get anyone interested'.
Text the other girl again and put who you are in the text. if she doesnt reply back this time, then she isnt interested...

[4getmenot]

to be fair Mrben she did say she'd go for a drink with him