hi bobby yeah i have been through this (while a go tho) i could never understand it? i used to be really really mean to the guy in question too, dont know why, used to make them wear certain clothes or i wouldnt go out with them that night, sometimes i thought they looked nice and other times i would be embaressed to be seen with them? all good looking blokes too? Then i'd finish with them, and when i was bored a couple of weeks later think 'Ah they werent that bad' and ring them up, arrange to meet them and then think..........YUK... strange? Unless i'm just a total bit*h? hope you sort it out, but doubt if hes the one for you if you have these feelings, i mean imagine turning up at the church for your wedding and you were having one of those days where you thought eewww : O