Ok lets see

[4getmenot]

What is worse rape or murder?

[Joe_the_Lion]

Also, without being base, it is widely reported that some women, and indeed men, have a fantasy about being raped. I can not imagine there are people who fantasize about being killed.

[joko]

that is incorrect shannon...most rapes are by someone known to the victim...the almost cliched view of the stranger in a dark alleyway, is actually rather rare.

[homerjay69]

I would say it depends on whos angle you look at it.The victim says rape is worse cause of the life 'after' but the people left behind would say murder cause of the loss.Well thats what I think anyway (_8(I)

[unruliejulie]

well 4get, i know i would would rather be raped than murdered!

[katangel26]

Rape. Although if you're looking at it from a criminal point of view it's murder.