yes you have. Youre being honest with your new fella, thats the best way for a relationship. You are also trying to save any trouble by not giving him the address of your ex and he should be able to understand that. If i see your ex I'll tell him where to get off, treating you the way he did he deserves no second chance and should learn from his mistake, not threaten you.
So...............do we get to meet him on Thursday??? I might stay late just to check him out lol