Hi Bina, in my experience men often don't realise there is a problem unless they are told. I am often guilty of getting upset about something that Mr Inquiry knows nothing about, dwelling on it and getting more and more upset, when I mention it he is always really good and we discuss it, but until I tell him, he would never have realised their was a problem, us women analyse more than our men, our priorities, values and beliefs are often different. Talk through your feelings with him, it might help if you change your surroundings, maybe go for a pic-nic in the park and talk it through on nuteral territory & somewhere where he can't escape!