Birthday ideas

[pitstopbunny]

Hi guys, someone the other day asked me what I did for my birthday last year....it was so memorable that I cannot remember, I doubt whether I did anything!

I want some ideas of what to do, there is only me (I don't have any close friends) but I am quite happy to do something by myself.

I'll be 39, I don't have much money and I am based in Southampton, UK. My birthday is at the end of June, so I have a little while to go yet - Any ideas?

[4getmenot]

some people just dont like either. It can happen, just like some people like apply pie some people like trifle, some like both and some dont like any at all. :-)

[crete]

sorry 4get what is a genger ? : )

[pitstopbunny]

Ok, I have always been straight I was actually married for 14 years, but for the last 7 years I moved into the spare bedroom & he had to go without. I have never been interested in sex but I guess I felt it was the right thing to do.
4 years ago, when I divorced my ex (I wanted him to have a life) , I came 'out' as asexual, nothing to do with religion just being true to my own feelings at last.

[4getmenot]

oh my sincere apologies to the one and only crete, as other people may have guessed I meant gender.

[crete]

4get.. a joke ! pitst, i say whatever makes you happy, good luck. interesting topic though.

[mrs_overall]

1. Pack some food, drink and your Ipod in a rucksack and go climb a hill (sounds naff but I did this one Xmas day)
2. Try something new. It doesn't have to be expensive..I've always fancied having an ice skating lesson.
3. Help out a deserving charity for the day.
Whatever you decide...I hope you have a great birthday!

[4getmenot]

I think the charity or being a volunteer sounds good idea :-)

[pitstopbunny]

believe me being asexual is the best, I'd never change it....I have a good life can do what I want to, when I want to.....now, if I can just find something fantastic for my birthday , I'll be sorted!

[Skreecheeboy]

Rampant Rabbit? Remind you what you're missing? x

[pitstopbunny]

I'm not missing it though! Asexuals don't get all those sexual feelings!

Anyway was that a suggestion for my birthday or just in general?