Would you say or not?

[beryllium]

Hello All :-) Mr B is fixing next doors computer. They are both well retired,(70+), and they are bringing up their grandson aged 14. The question is this. The computer? has approx 400 downloads of porn, and that has brought with it all sorts of spyware lol and has caused their computer to go doolally. Presuming it's the grandson, does Mr B tell them what has caused the problem or leave it? They are such a sweet couple, regular church goers too....

[redhead23]

i say tell them , they have a right to know what their pervy grandson has been doing

[reddizzydebs]

absolutely tell them and install nanny net of some kind! 14years old-what happened to riding on bikes and playing footy!!! Yee Gods!!!! It doesn't matter how lovely this couple are they need to have an honest relationship with their grandson, not one that is hidden-thats where the trouble starts!

[whiffey]

Just clear the stuff out. The presumptive culprit might get the message. Why create red faces and pain by naming and (trying to) shaming ? At 14 he naturally wants to see every nude woman he can. Nothing wrong with that, unless it's particularly nasty stuff.

[ummmm]

I agree with Whiffey.

[crete]

you are assuming its the grandson,!

[ummmm]

And assuming that regular church goers never look at porn

[beryllium]

lol... exactly crete we are presuming it's the grandson.....

He's cleared it all off, but it's not up to Mr B to put nanny net on someone elses computer without telling them now is it?

And yes, I do believe it's a healthy curiosity but can you imagine.... when the vicar pops round for tea and grandad wants to show him something on the computer???..... blumin pop ups lol.....

[beryllium]

oh ummmm if you saw them...... but then again....

btw... it's 'normal porn' not nasty stuff.... god bless 'em....

[mrknowall]

It will be the old couple i did a car boot a couple of years ago.
I had a couple porn video's and a book about sexual positions an old dear of about 70 bought them lol

So dont delete the old couple s porn add some more for them.

[mrknowall]

If the old couple is funny or ignors you next time you will no why.

[whiffey]

Yes, there is a balance. There are many tasteful websites showing young ladies in skimpies and less. A friend of mine knows hundreds of them, updated daily, and you can add them to your browser as Favourites apparently, not that I would know, it's only what my friend tells me.

[raysparx1]

whiffey is correct,just delete it all and leave it clean, at 14 he is going to look isn't he, if it was him of course.

[netibiza]

If may be the old guy,he may still have the urge at that age.

[RATTER15]

I blame the old biddies, you know what these Christians are like!!!

They say its the quiet ones you have to watch!!

Hi crete, you OK

[bednobs]

your husband just has to say that the problem has probably been caused by some of the downloaded stuff, or some of the sites visited. He dosent have to say what it is

[whiffey]

I would so love to pick up on "you know what these Christians are like" but I won't because that is another thread, another world altogether.

Isaiah.

[mrknowall]

I bet your husband was there ages flicking through them
Was he lol

[joko]

just tell them what the cause was, but say it neutrally, don't say it with any bias or implication.

it may well be the couple, he will still have desire, but perhaps his wife is not into it any more... it could even be her!

you just don't know.

perhaps put it in a written report (they won't know this isn't a standard thing)

[beryllium]

hehe, he's still in a bit of a quandry because, if they do internet banking..... who knows who's getting their details.

I think he should ask them if they bank on the net, and then go from there lol..... we wondered if he should just have a quick word with the boy about security and certain sites and then decided that would be a no.... as it could be the old 'uns and the boy be innocent......

I think it's funny and the mind boggles!!!

On an even stranger note, and where we live.... the disability shop round the corner also sells knitting yarns and.... the old lady that stands behind the counter? will show you a secret door.... to a ruddy porn shop underneath!!! League of Gentlemen anyone?

[beryllium]

like the idea of a written report joko I'll tell him that...
lol, mrknowall, I'm married to a man of the world....