Too Shy Shy....

[4getmenot]

Ladies do you go for men who are shy and quiet or loud and cocky?
and yes I've started heading all my posts as songs just to annoy everyone :-)

[ummmm]

I wouldn't call them loud and cocky but definitely out going.

[paulaoneill]

At this stage of the game I'll take what I can get!! If given the choice, i would go for a louder person.

[stylinsam]

i like an outgoing man but no "too" outgoing .........

[4getmenot]

oh I like outgoing but I'd prefer shy out of being loud. Hate men like that when I go out in the pub. I'm more likely to notice the quiet shy one in the corner, that other girls arent looking at.

[Champagne]

Either. I can see past shyness so I'd have to qualms about chatting to a quiet, shy type if I thought he was interesting. They always come out of their shell 1-on-1.

[Rubyrose]

I tend to go for a mixture... I find the c0cky ones annoy me and I think they are so full of it, but then I end up fancying them against my will! Lol... And the shy ones are sweet and gentle but so much harder to work with considering I am an outrageous flirt!

[nat_84]

I dunno really, a bit both i suppose...

[Champagne]

Actually, Rubes has pretty much summed it up for me too.

[Skreecheeboy]

What song is that Forgetmenot? I've heard of don't be shy by the libertines but not that one....

From a male point of view, I wouldn't mind if they were shy, just so long as the conversation flows and isn't like pulling teeth and it's good if they approach you, preferably in pairs or threes but then I find I perform better in front of an audience....in conversation only I might add before anybody interjects!

[4getmenot]

I think I like to be a bit in control and I like to embarass the shy ones and its a mission to get them out of their shell so thats why I go for them.

[Champagne]

Limahl.

Now I'm showing my age! :o}

[4getmenot]

skreech I'm not sure how old you are but kajagoogoo sang it. Too Shy Shy, hush hush eye to eye.... I'm making it my new mission to come up with song names.

[4getmenot]

well I think limahl might have been the lead singer.

[unruliejulie]

I prefer the shyer (but not painfully shy) more intelligent kind of man who can hold a decent conversation and keep me interested with the things he finds interesting ! I've changed as ive got older though, mind you, cant say cocky has ever really appealed to me.

[4getmenot]

I've Changed too, I find that when you were young the cocky guys were hard to get and a challenge but they still are when you�re older and don�t want to settle, whereas as you get older you tend to go for someone you can trust that will support you in stuff.

[Skreecheeboy]

Kajagoogoo?!?! I think they might be before my time, I was born in the 80's luv!

[4getmenot]

yer 1983. and how dare you! I was only born in the 70's :-) lol

[mccfluff]

hush hush

i'm with Ruby on this one, i prefer the shy guys but always seems to ended up being chatteed up by the loud ones!

[Skreecheeboy]

Well I was born that year so that's probably why I can't remember and my folks probably weren't into that kind of music, are they the folk that did Agga-do?