i cant win!

[jen85]

im so annoyed with my boyfriend right now. last friday i asked him if i was seeing him that evening (normally friday is our night) and he said he'll c me either friday or saturday but wanted to see his mates at some point cuz he has plans with me for the next few weekends. fair enough i was absolutly fine with that. i went out and had a brilliant night. his night apparently wasn't so good and he was moaning that he hasnt met my mates and i didnt invite him out. this to me didnt seem fair seen as he was the one that had initially implied that he wanted to go elsewhere for the night. so this week im going out friday and i said to him on monday that i would like him to come. the plan was to go to the dogs and onto a club but it turns out the dogs r shut on a friday night so there was a change of plan and one of my mates said we can go to her flat for a few bevvies instead before going clubbing. iv just told him the new plans and he has turned around and said he doesnt want to go because 1)he doesnt want to get to drunk cuz we have a big party saturday night as well and 2) he wont know anyone, even though my brother and brothers girlfriend (who he knows) will be there. he can tell i was annoyed especially as everyone will b coupled now, except me, and i said i was going (we were on the phone) i havent heard from him since. grrrr so annoyed! men! i just cant win!

[Tha-Flash]

just sounds like hes a bit ***** off cos of u changing plans. and those are 2 crap excuses :)

just go anyway and have fun

[dilf]

promise him sex thats what a good girlfriend would do .then say he can go out with his mates cos you are stopping in and having a early night , when he comes home drunk suprise him by being in bed with a girl and tell him to get in or get out. that should do the trick.

oh , stop nagging aswell

[4getmenot]

Its his life. Up to him. Yer can be annoying but you gotta start living your life as just yours. No-one should have 'our nights'

[jen85]

i should know better than to expect serious answers on this site. its getting silly now. i what point does it sound like im nagging and did i ever imply that we live in each others pockets.

[4getmenot]

these are serious answers, maybe a bit blunt but they are right, obviously you just cant handle them. Why dont you just tell us what you want us to put. Why make someone go to something they dont want to go to just because you want him to. I'd feel really bad if I made my bloke do that.

[jen85]

im not making him go anywhere. in fact iv told him not to if he wont feel comfortable with it. yes i was annoyed but thats because he has been up for it all week and iv planned it all and no he decides that he doesnt want too. iv read through my post and cant see where exactly it implies that im making him come with me even though he doesnt want too!? read your comment again about these being serious answers and then read 'dilf's' post!

[4getmenot]

yer well he might be right about the nagging and as for the rest well you have to expect that on an open website but I'm sure he was just trying to make you laugh. And you say you dont live in his pocket but you cant go to a party on your own coz evryone else will be coupled up. Ok so you dont think how you're feeling is wrong and maybe he should have just told you he didnt want to go in first place. But what would you like him to do now? You're making something little into something big.

[jen85]

i dont want him 2 do anything now. if he doesnt want to go he doesnt want to go, end off. my first post was just me having a rant because i was disappointed that that he said he would come and has now let me down. im sure that anyone would be a little annoyed if they had been let down a day beforehand especially after the reasons he gave were so silly. i never said that i wasn't going because he isn't. also i only see him twice a week anyway so how that means we live in each others pockets i havent a clue.

[4getmenot]

well you're all hunkydory then arent you :-)

[4getmenot]

and yer I can see now it was a rant and not a question.

[jen85]

yeah im a bit happier today. last night i had got off the phone and was a little angry, hence the rant.ill go out on my own tomorrow and just have to see him once this week :o(

[Skreecheeboy]

I agree with dilf.

[4getmenot]

yer go to the party and enjoy yourself :-) You never know he may regret not going. Just rub it in by saying how great it was :-)

[dilf]

see

[Skreecheeboy]

You told her dilf!