depends what you looked like. I know thats bad but I'd say 45 would be a put off to me, but then also depends on age of the taker of attention. But then if Sean Connery gave me a bit of attention I wouldnt mind :-)
LOL Doc Spock, don't think that the men change, I think its the womens opinion of the men that change eg if a girl considers you old enough to be her father she may consider you a dirty old man!