on the verge of an affair!

[kitten_uk2]

ok heres a problem for you. me and my husband have been married 7 months, i love him to bits. but we are going through a bad patch at mo. ive previously wrote about him on his stupid game(wow) and paying no attention to me or our son, so i think this is what it stems from. anyway, recently i have heard from an ex of mine someone i loved very much and it broke my heart when we broke up. ive never stopped thinking of him and that was 4 years ago. i rung him and we have been texing and emailing, he says he wants to see me again etc.
so the problem is i just dont know what to do, the love of my life wants to see me, and im in 2 minds what to do.
ive been honest with my hubby and told him the situation, i need love and affection from HIM, not my x
but he is so wraped up in his game, and he now says he cant show me anything unless i get my ex out my head.
but i wouldnt even be writing this if me and my hubby were loved up. im blaming it on him and hes blaming it on me........... please help.

[Rubyrose]

How does what help the author or the post?

[Skreecheeboy]

Sorry trigg! My next question was are you one of those hairy armpitted hippy chicks but if you're a dude then I'll assume you're not! Peace!

[dove]

kitten_uk2, I have read most of the responses you have had, and my heart goes out to you. On reading them all again I reckon that triggerhappy has the best advice.

Good luck babe.
Just wondering if the ex is ur first love, cos Im still in love with mine, and that was over a hundred years ago.

xx

[dove]

OOOOPpppsss sorry HIPPY!!!! ROFL X no offence meant x

[kitten_uk2]

To be honest we dont get much time together, he works nights i work days, we sleep whenever we get the chance , i was with ex for 3 years on and off, the smallest arguement and he would dump me, id always go running back, my hubby is completely different to my ex in so many ways, but its my ex whos paying me the attention i so need.
still hoping hubby cuts internet off,, should know by the weekend. think it will do everyone good, thanx for all your answers, ive never had so many responses to a question.
kitty, x

[fine,thanks]

oh you lucky girl. so many responses re thinking of having an affair... : )