Shy or gregarious?

[TickleTheCat]

Scenario: There are a group of guys at a party/bar/club, most are quite gregarious and one is a bit more shy/quieter.
Would you men expect the ladies to be more attracted to the party boys or the quieter guy and which would you ladies prefer?

[raysparx1]

The quieter one, cos that is me.!!!

[Diamond_Dog]

I am with Uncle Raymondo. Nobody likes a braggard.

[Octavius]

I am the �quiet� one in the group and always end up with ladies wanting me to listen to them rather than them listening to some bravado nob-jockey relaying some tosh about his share prices.

Many women like the air of mystyry that surrounds the dark horse. Well that is my experience anyway.

[tiny e.a]

I'd go for the quiter one, unless one of the louder ones was very very amusing. I expect it's the same for men, if there's a bunch of women shouting there heads I expect most men would go for the quiter of the groups rather than the loudmouths. (Shame really seeing as I'm usually one of the annoying loudmouths!)

[Skreecheeboy]

I think it depends how fit they are.

[CheekyChops]

Depends what I was after. Some fun, then I would go for the gregarious loud ones but for a relationship, probably the quiter one.

[CheekyChops]

Depends what I was after. Some fun, then I would go for the gregarious loud ones but for a relationship, probably the quieter one.

[tiny e.a]

Actually yeah, if the quieter one was a rotter then I'm sure they'd be left well alone by man and woman alike!

[laurence2]

Do i suspect that your '''Scenario'' posting is what has happened to you recently?

Yes.

As for what one you are attracted to etc, it really depends on what your looking for.

Ps, i'm not the quite type, but as my dad said many moons ago, beware of the ''quite ones''?

[Octavius]

Tickle, did you used to be called jibjab?

[Doc Spock]

The one with the big bulge in his trousers.

[TickleTheCat]

*Octavius* No I was on before but forgot my name... wasn't jibjab though.
*Laurence2* No not happened to me
Had a discussion with American friend who said it would always be the 'party' boy... I said the quiet one.... Wondered if this was a cultural difference so posted this question here and on a predominantly American forum and so far it does appear to be just that. Most answers on the US site are saying the gregarious guy were as here it's mainly the quieter one.... Interesting

[kctgreat]

If the men were all equally attractive? Then I would I prefer quiet one. He has to be able to carry on a conversation though. I like the strong, serious(but can laugh at himself), smart type.