Can gits ever become gentlemen?

[sosad]

Can Gits ever become gentlemen and settle down?

[Doc Spock]

Is that right ,saddo was nicking anothers girls husband. In that case her question should be , make it up for youself.

[society]

I'm not sure I'm understanding everything here, but did you say he cheated on his wife? Was it you he cheated with? I hope not, because if it was you sure deserve what he did to you. If not forgive me, my sentiments to you. Chin up and head high! xx

[raysparx1]

Hi sosad, I never realised this bloke was married, what on earth made you believe he would not cheat on you ? he had already cheated on the woman he married, it was always going to happen, I believe just a matter of when, be thankful he is now out of your life he is a fuul time wazzock. Ray xx

[bobtheturkey]

wazzock i haven't heard that word in ages :)

[B00]

I'm sorry sosad, but if you believed a guy who was already cheating on his wife to be with you could be faithful to you, then you're obviously very naive.

Maybe now you'll leave the married men alone, because you're feeling now one tenth of what his wife will be feeling if she ever finds out what's going on.

[neo.]

wazock is indeed a much underused word.

[sosad]

Yes i thought i deserved it, i have never ever been unfaithful before, and oddly enough at the beginning I said i would help him sort out his marriage and we were just friends, his wife drinks alot - I think i reallise now why....

I know I have been a first class plonker, gulable and a complete pratt, but he said all the right things i'd never heard before.

What a fool I've been

[cazzz1975]

does he have kids sosad?, now that would be sad

[cazzz1975]

the gullable part is the part of you that believes he is your soulmate, the part of you that would have him back in a flash, you should walk away from the whole thing, never give him a second thought or a chance.

[B00]

Well good on you sosad, despite being a fool over a married guy, you do sound like a level headed young woman. And you've actually been civilised to us that have been more critical of you, kudos to you!

You will get over this, as crap as the line sounds, time really is a great healer.

Just stay away from the marrieds in future ;-)

[cazzz1975]

I bet he says those same words to all the women he dates, including his poor wife, he is just well practised in knowing what women want to hear, and it works like a charm

[sosad]

Yes he does,

I kept saying i was worried about them. I feel so bad, and your right I bet his wife feels terrible.

Yes i was a fool, stuppid stuppid fool.

[society]

Well it done happen. Hopefully you've learned a valuable lesson. Throw him in the rubbish, pick yourself up an move on.

[sosad]

He has said all the things he said to me to her

[Doc Spock]

This is better than a Mills and Boon story.

[sosad]

Doc Spoc you made me laugh, writting it down and reading it back it's unbelievable, it is like it's happened to some else, i am normally so sensible, and believe it or not I am extremely considerate of other peoples feelings, i think that's why I'm so hurt. ironically though it may be. doc spoc will you make me laugh again? please i'd forgotten what it was like - thank you

[cazzz1975]

lol sosad, you will have to ply him with rum and coke first

[~Wingnut~]

Hi sosad :o)
As other's have said you have learnt the hard way but now you are wary and know not to rush in so quick maybe in the future.
Please stop beating yourself up over this, you know you did wrong but he is the one that's married and should feel bad but the prat clearly cares about no-one but himself. From your comment in your other thread basically all he's looking for is sex and doesn't care about who he hurts, someone like this is not a soulmate, your well rid.
I say you should treat yourself to something (clothes, jewllery, DVD, splash out a bit etc.) have a relaxing bath, bit or pampering that sort of thing and start looking to the future with that prat well and truly in the past. Thank yourself lucky you know the truth and don't feel sorry for yourself save that for his next victim :o)

[sosad]

Now I've stopped laughing at the hilarious; rediculous situation from histeria and confusion, you are all so right, in so many ways but he gave me a desease, which will live with me for the rest of my life.

when i told him he are you sure it's me, then said he wasn't bothered about having it. not sure if he already had it or she gave it him.