Can gits ever become gentlemen?

[sosad]

Can Gits ever become gentlemen and settle down?

[caz247]

NO def not
they are all nutters so i'm going to stay single
from now on

[B00]

I hate to sound unfeeling, but if this post is related to your previous ones about your ex boyfriend, dont you think you're obsessing a bit now?

And yes, in answer to your question, I believe they can. As soon as they meet 'The One' and again, without sounding cruel, as far as your ex was concerned you obviously wasn't.

Like I said, I dont mean to cause offence, I'm just being honest, maybe a bit too bluntly.

[laurence2]

Your beginning to sound like Nicky out of Bigbrother.

Get over it.


Well said Boo

[johnlambert]

Yep!!!!
I did, I was a complete 100% b4stard when I was younger, I've cheated on 2 of my wives and` every girlfriend I've ever had, then one day, i met the love of my life, I can't even begin to contemplate life without her and I feel so lucky that she chose to marry me. I am very very happily married and i intend to stay that way forever

[cazzz1975]

I hate to say it john but I believe cheats will always cheat...maybe not today but there will come a time

[johnlambert]

I can't ever see that happening cazzz, As soon as I clapped eyes on my mrs johnlambert, a little voice in my head told me she was THE one, I've never been happier,

[neo.]

no

[confused79]

Dont agree about cheats always cheats, it very much depends on the person!
by the way ive never been a cheat ive actually been cheated on twice, and no im not a mug.
I dont think she is obsessing, she is obviously very hurt and down and at the moment all she can think of is what she is going through at the moment, i know ive been there.

Dont worry hun its not all doom and gloom and there is the right one out there for you, i know it seems so sh1t at the moment and you feel like you will never be happy again and not get over this sad feeling, but i promise you this feeling wont last. Its hard but it will be better soon.

Dont judge her in saying she is obsessing its really hard to come to terms with something like being cheated on.

Also dont let it make you bitter and twisted and tar every man with the same brush it will just make you hard faced. You shouldnt have to change for what someone else has done to you.
Chin up and done think every man is the same! there are the 1% of the population that can be real good gentlemen.
x

[RATTER15]

I changed as well, from the fifst day I was married!!!

It does happen.

[rugeleyboy]

i did!!!!!!! but i was never a bad git?..... just a free spirit!! lol

[bobtheturkey]

i use head and shoulders

[sosad]

thank you for your support those of you that have clearly been through a similar experience, I would have had the same attitude as just get over it, before now.

I have never felt like this before, i really thought i'd found my soulmate, i thought he had too - he said so repeatidly to me. Best friends, soulmates and lovers he would say.

It wasn't just a flash in the pan either.

I suppose i just wanted to know that I was normal feeling like this and need to vent my frustration.

And I do intend to get over it, i am ordinarily a positive person

[Octavius]

I was a full time git, but now I am a gentleman and have settled down. I can still be a git sometimes, but not often and not in a nasty way.

[raysparx1]

Hi sosad, you will get over this, it will take time and you will come out of it stronger, you will also learn to trust again, but it will be quite a while before you will trust somebody 100%, I think if blokes that are cheats don't change they end up very sad and lonely with just a few distant memories for company, you will be ok, stay strong and look for the positive things in life, move on from this bloke, he ain't worth any more time in your head, Take care, Ray xx

[cazzz1975]

was he the guy who cheated on his wife sosad??

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question430580.html

sounds like a creep, hardly soulmate material

[sosad]

yes it was.

[Doc Spock]

Well what did I do wrong, started off a real gent , now an old git.

[B00]

I'm sorry? This guy was already married to someone else????

[society]

Sosad, be grateful it happened this way and not after you both got married or started living together. It didn't work out with you all because there's someone better out there for you. Keep telling yourself there's someone better out there waiting for you. Best wishes. xxx

[cazzz1975]

I know you fell for him big time but in a few years you will look back and wonder how you were duped!, these types of guys go overboard with the "it was meant to be" cr@p, all the time smoozing his way around any women who will let them.

You have to look at the black and white, if you were with this guy full time you probably wouldnt trust him, look how he treats his wife as a prime example! everytime his mobile was switched off or he was late you would always be wondering....

you need to gain some self confidence and realise that there is a much better man out there for you, go out more and stop thinking about this creep, he will always be this way, you dont need that kind of cr@p, dont let him treat you like a doormat, move on, go out, join a online dating site, start looking for what you want!!! embrace life, you only have one!!