A bit of a dilemma.....

[blu3wave]

I have a HUGE crush on a married man, he says his wife is boring him to death, and he's ready to pack his bags and computer and move out as soon as I give him the go ahead!
I don't care much about his wife, she's an ignoramus and obviously doesn't have a clue about all of this....anyway, she'll live.
So, what do I do? All opinions welcome! :)

[Octavius]

Because dear whiffey I have an overwhelming sense of self-importance.

[whiffey]

Oh, I hadn't noticed.

[Octavius]

I often try to make it obvious. If you hadn�t noticed then you must be blinkered �.or na�ve..?

[cazzz1975]

I think whiffey has been to busy with his posse, the trolls

[whiffey]

Well if it's a posse I am definitely Big P.

[blu3wave]

Why is so hard for everyone to accept that a married man can leave his.... what's the word.... Boring wife, and marry Me ?Coz I am worth it that's why! Anyway, marriage is no biggie these days, you can show up drunk in Las Vegas with a donkey and it'll be done, no problem. Divorce is just as easy, but that's another story.............

[Octavius]

I think that everyone can believe that a married man will leave his wife. It happens every day. So trying to make a meal ticket out of it is rather lame, but there you go. Many were just proffering advice as to your question, as is normal on a Q&A site. I challenge you however, to prove to me that you can go to Las Vegas and marry a donkey. I will require evidence of course, a certificate and some photos would do I suppose.

[redcrx]

if marriage and divorce are such easy things to do where is the real meaning in it?
May as well just go out and buy a bag of chips and save some money

[Pippa68]

I find it hard to believe that you want to marry him, not the fact that he is leaving his wife. Taking his time over it though isn't he?

Unless of course this Q is all bo11ocks.

[Octavius]

I presume it is based on blu3wave's vast experience of going from a crush to a wedding proposal in the space of two posts. A far stretch of anyone�s imagination, but seeing as he has mentioned weddings and donkeys, I am not convinced we are dealing with a man of sound mind, let alone body and bo11ox.

[Sasha13]

Why post a question on this when you've already made up your mind about the whole situation?

Go for it - give him the go ahead. IF he leaves her, I give it 6 months max - I don't think many people could put up with a condescending, ignorant, selfish b***h like you for much longer.

People like you make me sick - the guy's married. He's committed his life to someone. And you're about to help him potentially destroy someones life. You deserve each other and I hope he does the same thing to you before the year is out.

Hope you welcome that opinion.

Jeezsh. No wonder this country's going down the pan...

[blu3wave]

It doesnt matter if you believe me or not. Thanks for your input anyhow, nice to hear all kinds of opinions.

He's packing away as we speak. We had a big serious discussion on the phone and have decided to have the wedding in Jamaica (after the storm passes by). Tickets and cost will be pretty cheap after.

[Pippa68]

Oct ~ I keep expecting a little 'PS' at the bottom of your posts. What is going on?

[B00]

why does octavius has such big gaps on his posts?

[whiffey]

They are very important big gaps though :)

[redcrx]

will you have time before the new term starts?

[Pippa68]

Blimey..marrying someone you only have a crush on..

Does love come into it at all?

[blu3wave]

And thankyou for your very helpful opinion Sasha, NOT! I can picture you now, old lady living by herself in a bedsit, 3 cats, grey hair no husband, obviously! Don't worry about me, good luck with your life.

[Pippa68]

Well you did say ''all opinions welcome'' ;o)

[Sasha13]

Ha ha - sorry darling, far from it. 28 years old, very happy relationship, loving life and earning enough money to live it to the full.

You didn't say opinions had to be helpful - but seriously sweetheart, take a look at yourself - you're beyond pathetic.