Cheating

[girlygirl2]

If you thought that your partner was cheating, what extemes would you go to so that you could catch them out?

Also if you found them out, how many times would you believe their bu11sh1t and try and make it work?

[Champagne]

I think if you're completely in lust and in love with someone it's hard not to believe their bullsh!t. Not because you're a mug, but because you hold onto that glimmer of hope that, 1) they really love you enough to want to make it work, and 2) that depressing feeling that if you can't make this work, what hope do you have with anyone else?

Morally, I would always state that if I even had a sniff of my partner cheating on me, then I would dump him without question or explanation!!

Realistically, my heart sometimes defeats my brain and I find myself putting up with more than I truly deserve. Thankfully it's very rare though! :o)

[unrulyjulie]

Legend, my hubby was playing detective, his mind was working overtime with a phone number that had been called a lot at times he thought were "suspicious" same with a mobile number. They were both posy's!!!! So, it isnt always that obvious is it?????

[aka pixi]

If I thought my partner was cheating I wouldnt say a word at first , not until I had some kind of proof (If you say owt without proof, not only would it let them know I was onto them it would also be really horrible if they weren't and I accused them of it)

I don't think I would spy on their texts or emails or that kinda thing. I believe that if they are confident that you know nothing about it they would slip up in the end.

On the other hand if I knew for a fact they had been cheating there would be no discussing it, no second chances, no listening to bullcrap excuses as to why it happened. The relationship would be over right there and then.

[unrulyjulie]

no Legend, i didnt ask ! :-) wasn't me!

[unrulyjulie]

i already know and understand why legend. I still didnt ask why you moved! lol

Im hunky dorey, bit like you, happy as a pig in**** :-)

[unrulyjulie]

ok well thats lovely but its also wonderful weather here. yeah, its cloudy and bloody cold and it might rain later but APART from that, its lovely! :-) honest!! Am i convincing you yet?

sorry girlygirl!

[bigredsshop]

I caught my wife cheating and I droped the dead weight.
And it cost me 13 years of fighting for my daughter, and still the lies have won for her all along. So if your dishonest in the USA it pay's to be that way apparently.
Truth and justice are a bought entity, If theres no children involved then by all means move on to the next new flame in your life. It could be that theres a person close to you that you've been ignoring who has always admired you, and very quite possibly may love you! Stop dragging yourself through the mud, move on and be happier because of it.
Get a pet they offer undying love untill they pass on.