looking back

[legend758duo]

looking back.

do you regret things in your life ?

do you think you could have done things differently ?

or do you think it was just down to fate ??

[Scarlett]

Everything that I wish I had done differently I now realise that my instinct was telling me so at the time! So, now I will listen to my inner voice!!

[China Doll]

1) Not really. Anything bad I've learnt from and am stronger for.

2) Oh yes. Hindsight is always 20/20.

3) No. We make our own decisions which take us on different paths. You just have to learn and grow from the bad ones.... Or drink a lot of red wine and listen to miserable music for a bit. That helps too.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i have done loads of things i regret.
I should have done things differently.
But i think its down to fate mostly.
Who knows what my destiny is...

[RATTER15]

I am happy with the person I have become, if I didnt do the things I done and learned from those things, I may not be the same person I am now, so no I don't regret the anything.

[nutgoneflake]

There was one time when I thought I should leave a guy standing - every bone in my body was shouting out to turn on my heel and get out - but I didn't. I could have saved 4 years of unhappiness and being walked over, and it was so early on in our relationship I couldn't decide one way or the other and stayed. What a to$$er he was!! And I was only 19 and knew no better.

That was my "wish I hadn't." Now for the "wish I had." The most gorgeous man in the world used to pursue me, and I was so convinced that he was taking the mickey, that I used to avoid him. (doh!) I was at work, in a bar, and his brother came in to use the phone and tell him to come out. I heard him say "Yes, she's here" then turned and said to me "xxx wants to talk to you." I thought he was taking the mick aswell, so I pretended to be too busy to talk. He lived away, and I never really saw him after that because it was just before I moved up here.

I've sort of regretted that for 15 years, but all the while not forgetting, ever, that I wouldn't have found mr nutgone and had my beautiful children. I just daydream about it every now and then, as a little "what if?" sort of thing....

[neo.]

loads...just been watching Heroes and Hiro can go ack in time...wish i cud and do certain things differently

[theonlyone]

I regret that I could not say goodbye to my best friend as he died suddenly .

[Katy May]

Would do everything (almost) the same, if I hadn't I might not be where I am now and I wouldn't want to change that. Having said that, I walked up the aisle knowing I shouldn't but strongly believing that if it wasn't the right thing to do, fate would stop it. i don't belive in fate anymore, we make our own choices and pay our own prices.

[amonty1144]

Not many regrets in my life, maybe should have worked harder at Uni the first time, they maybe need not have retrained later in life but then I may not hav e met my husband, given birth to my son etc etc.
My one true regret is refusing to give change to a guy playing the accordion in Chesterfield, when I was about 8. I was scared and it gave me nightmares for months, as I thought he was starving. Perhaps that's where my social conscience comes from.

I think there is a plan for all our lives, whether we consciously contribute or not.

Look forward, glance back.

[Huderon]

1) Yes

2) Yes, but overall I'm glad I didn't

3) No