marriage

[claire666666]

Why is being married sooooo bloody hard? God I wish I was single.

[johnlambert]

Does your husband wish this too?

[Pippa68]

I find it very easy. If you don't like it..get divorced!

[cruella]

I love being married. Why do you find it so hard!

[B00]

Hard? In what way?

I personally have found it incredibly easy. It's so much better to be with someone who actually knows you better than you do yourself. And I especially appreciate not having to tart myself up just to see him as basically I'm a lazy cow.

[efc]

Be careful what you wish for! Being single isn't all its made out to be lol

[claire666666]

Yeah fair point pippa. Men they just do your head in. Sometimes I wish I was a lesbian
I think my life would be so much easier at least other women think alng the same lines as I do.
Sorry if i'm going on just had a bit to much to drink and had a massive argument with my husband.

[johnlambert]

Excellent idea claire666666, go for it love
then you'll get twice the PMT
no-one to remove big fcuk off hairy spiders from the bath, AND may I remind you that a vibrator CANNOT mow a lawn

[China Doll]

But a machete will clear your lawn, cut spiders in half and sort that annoying hubby out too.. ;0)

Perhaps you're just feeling a bit low with the combination of drinking and a row so it all feels horrid now. Nothing is plain sailing. Maybe when you and hubby make up it'll all seem much better.

Always good to have a little rant and get it off your chest though.

Chin up, these things always look better in the morning.

[claire666666]

Do you know Mr Lambert I don't care about big hairy spiders and I mow the law so remind me, What do I need a man for?

[johnlambert]

unscrewing the lids off a pickle/jam jar, or are you now going to tell me you have wrists like a navvie and a grip like a carpenters vice? in which case I refer to my first answer

[whiffey]

Just get divorced then, why bother the AB. Just become YET another marriage failure. You can become single it's dead easy. Do you have children ? My god I hope not.

[claire666666]

Do you know i'm only 26 been with hubby since I was 16 and this is the first major argument we have had. Sometimes I just feel like he takes me for granted he thinks that I will always be there for him no matter what.
I feel like a down trodden house wife.
I don't feel special to him anymore.

[johnlambert]

Like whiffey says, why are you telling us?
tell him!!!!

[claire666666]

Ye I have he don't bloody listen though.Thats why i'm sounding off to you lot.

[johnlambert]

Well that's just great,
I'm going down the pub
see you later!!!

[whiffey]

Your choice is simple. Stay married, or divorce. If you have no kids the only issues are financial. If you have kids then it is a completely different path of sorrow and tragedy.

[mightyWBA]

Tell him how you feel.
It's good to talk.
If he takes no notice get yourself down to "The Bushy Bowl Diner" in Wolverhampton.

[hau kola]

Why are you in Wolverhampton if youre a baggies fan Mighty?

[claire666666]

whats the bushy bowl diner?

[jno]

you're not married to whiffey, are you? If so I can fully understand your feelings.