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About 10 years ago, I had a one night stand with a celebrity. I have not seen him since.
I am now going to work on a production with him - he is the boss of the company.
If this were a normal job, I would just turn it down, but it is only for a few months, and he is pretty famous so I am keen to do this as he has industry weight and obviously anything he is connected with will probably do well - so it is good for my career.
However - how do act towards him?
Obviously I will not be winking at him or anything forward, lol, but seriously, do I act like we have never met before and say nothing, or do I be polite and perhaps in private acknowledge it and assure him that no-one knows and it will not affect the production?
Should I wait and see if he says anything?
He may not even remember himself! Though we did spend an evening and night together, so he likely will.
He is now married ( though after a bit of research on dates etc, I suspect he may have been married at the time, though I didn't know it then - or at least going out with her - I may be wrong, I am just guessing)
I am going to a meeting next week, and I will of course be professional, but I just feel a bit weird and nervous about it.
I also am concerned that as soon as he recognises me I may be 'let go' for some random reason.
I don't want him to worry that it will be spoken about to anyone else.
I have no feelings whatsoever for him and have no intention of causing him any pain
Can anyone give me any advice of the best course of action?
Thank You
I am now going to work on a production with him - he is the boss of the company.
If this were a normal job, I would just turn it down, but it is only for a few months, and he is pretty famous so I am keen to do this as he has industry weight and obviously anything he is connected with will probably do well - so it is good for my career.
However - how do act towards him?
Obviously I will not be winking at him or anything forward, lol, but seriously, do I act like we have never met before and say nothing, or do I be polite and perhaps in private acknowledge it and assure him that no-one knows and it will not affect the production?
Should I wait and see if he says anything?
He may not even remember himself! Though we did spend an evening and night together, so he likely will.
He is now married ( though after a bit of research on dates etc, I suspect he may have been married at the time, though I didn't know it then - or at least going out with her - I may be wrong, I am just guessing)
I am going to a meeting next week, and I will of course be professional, but I just feel a bit weird and nervous about it.
I also am concerned that as soon as he recognises me I may be 'let go' for some random reason.
I don't want him to worry that it will be spoken about to anyone else.
I have no feelings whatsoever for him and have no intention of causing him any pain
Can anyone give me any advice of the best course of action?
Thank You
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And can you hurry up and get back to me soon who dee knee? I'm going to have to go to bed soon, and if my suggestion is favourable i might as well wake Mr Boo and tell him he's being replaced at the same time.
paulsabin, I mentioned his celebrity because it is much more of an issue for him if this got out. He has more reason to hide this. He also has a lot of clout due to his fame, which is why I don't want ot do anything that may upset or worry him.
Also because it is film and tv.
Though perhaps I could have just said very successful or something, but what difference does me telling the truth make? I have given all the facts - why hide something that could change opinion?
Anyone who thinks I am lying, kindly make your way to the exit, and leave me with the people who actually want to help.
laurence - life happens, things happen, grow up.
Also because it is film and tv.
Though perhaps I could have just said very successful or something, but what difference does me telling the truth make? I have given all the facts - why hide something that could change opinion?
Anyone who thinks I am lying, kindly make your way to the exit, and leave me with the people who actually want to help.
laurence - life happens, things happen, grow up.
Thank you jno, and all of you for helping. I think actually I am more determined to put the past behind me and stop worrying - like some said, he may not even recognise me, and hopefully even if he does, he will be adult and professional about it.
After all the world must be full of people in similar situations who just get on with things.
But Tony flamin' Blair!
No, but he's defo top of my 'client, gold digger, hooker bla bla list'
Boo, will robson out of robson and jerome do you?
After all the world must be full of people in similar situations who just get on with things.
But Tony flamin' Blair!
No, but he's defo top of my 'client, gold digger, hooker bla bla list'
Boo, will robson out of robson and jerome do you?
"rot in hell" ? Bit over the top isn't it laurence? Are you sure those pills are not past their sell by date? Are the demons coming to get you?
Goodnight Lozzer my sweet prince.
(you are on my list too)
Paulsabin - I don't know! I am confused and don't know what to do! That is why I asked. If I knew all the answers I wouldn't be here would I?
My mind is just playing out awful scenarios and I just thought some words from others might help.
I just thought I'd spell out the story.
And I am not going to name him.
You guys can guess all you like - you may have already named him, but like I said I can't confirm, sorry.
Goodnight Lozzer my sweet prince.
(you are on my list too)
Paulsabin - I don't know! I am confused and don't know what to do! That is why I asked. If I knew all the answers I wouldn't be here would I?
My mind is just playing out awful scenarios and I just thought some words from others might help.
I just thought I'd spell out the story.
And I am not going to name him.
You guys can guess all you like - you may have already named him, but like I said I can't confirm, sorry.