Talk about bad luck

[hau kola]

I`ve often talked about deaths in my family on different threads without going into much detail.Ive had a couple of glasses of wine and im feeling sorry for myself so here goes.My brother was killed in a motorbike accident,my mum died of cancer,my nephew was knocked of his bike and killed,My niece and nephew were killed by their dad,my sister died of cancer then my dad died.Surely i must have the unluckiest family ever?

[hau kola]

Bm and petal,life goes on,its bloody hard but its either that or curl up in a corner.

[weeal]

kp, that was brave - tis a strange post tho, apologies no intention to offend but I wouldnt dare state all my personal tragedies on AB website, wine or no wine

[bigmamma]

It has to go on doesn't it love , I lost eight family members in the last 4 years , 3 of them in 18 months and while I miss them terribly I agree we can't just curl up . :-)

[kp nonuts]

sad you all are to fall for it

[Petal~flower]

kp, what is with all this russian/whiffey thing?

Cant someone post something on here without someone accusing them of being an imposter.

There are other people who use this site, apart from the "cliche" bunch

[dot.hawkes]

KP you are nuts, no chance you are going to apologise to hau kola for your copmment then?

[hau kola]

Im not on my own then BM.What hurts is that 4 of my relatives were children,life seems so unfair.

[hau kola]

kp i expected better from you.You know darn well ive been using this site for months.Yeah,it does sound far fetched,like i said you couldnt make it up.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/i/475655,stm

[kp nonuts]

jeezees hawkes get a life and smell the coffee or am I just being wound up here.
Ok am a bit green at the mo as have just got back from holiday but dot I really thought you had a little more intelegance
(yea ok) than you have just shown as you do seem to be on the ball most times so time will tell wont it and you will see that I am right eventually

[hau kola]

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/475655,stm

[hau kola]

Dont know why it wont work.

[kp nonuts]

t@sser whiff

[Redbel]

Hello hau kola.....so sorry to hear this....I've also lost quite a few family members , nothing as tragic as your niece and nephew or your brother. But the one thing that can never be taken away is our memories.. Take care.. xx

[annie0000]

I know it is hard, but you need to put it behind you and think of the good things you have going for you.

If you are the unluckiest person, Mr annie and I must win unluckiest couple. In the 12 years we have known each other:

1. My husband's brother died in a house fire
2. My husbands dad died of a stroke
3. My husbands uncle drowned in the river behind his mum's house whilst he was staying with her
4. My uncle died of cancer
5. My brother died from blood poisoning
6. My Dad died of a heart attack
7. My cousin was killed in a road accident
8. My husbands mum died of cancer
9. My husbands other brother died of cancer shortly after his baby daughter almost died from a diabetic coma.
10 My sister suffered a late miscarriage
11. My uncle died of exposure after breaking his leg on the way home from the pub in winter
12. My aunt died of cancer
13. My sister-in -law has been diagnosed with breast cancer and is not responding to treatment.
14. My husband has been suffering with a mystery illness for the last three years - does not seem to be life threatening though.
During all this I also had fertility problems - mainly due to stress and have been made redundant twice.

You know what though - I couldn't do anything about any of those deaths - so while I think about the closest ones to me pretty much every day, I would say that I am an optimist and I look at my kids and that just brightens my days.

I am well insured though!!!!!

[sticky vicki]

Well I just watched snakes on the plane and im still here

[hau kola]

Thanks for your kind words redbel.
annie-not sure what to say-just sending you hugs.xxx
I to look at my daughter and try to give her the best in life.
Can i ask,do you worry about your kids,about something bad happening cos it keeps me awake at night.

[H0merSimpson]

Rev. Lovejoy couldn't handle all those bereavemennnnnts.

[annie0000]

Hi Hau kola - yes we do worry about our kids - there are too many kids in our family that have been left without a parent, and I said that we were well insured and I wasn't joking. We are not particularly well off, but we have wills and trusts and insurance up to our eyeballs to make sure that at least they wouldn't have to worry about income if anything were to happen to us. We are also lucky enough to have enough family and friends available to ensure that they would always have a loving home.

This song:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=sIAOFjt6xeE

always makes my kids feel really well looked after, we say that it is about guardian angels and how their granparents and uncles look out for them when they are scared.

[hau kola]

annie,can i ask how old you are?You dont have to answer if you dont wish to.
The morning my broyher died Bright Eyes came on the radio.I cant listen to it now.