Hello tigwig :)
My MiL decided to drop dead on us 3 weeks ago. FiL is weak from various brain stuff, but independant sort of. The dog is his saviour in this case. I see Lindylou has suggested Wiltshire Farm Foods, a good start. My SiL has Marks and Sparks deliver atm, and I think they're pretty good on the tv dinner front too.
Shadow is right about men that can't/won't cook. Both my dad and bruv cannot cook, although both have had a go lol...
Strangely though, after the horrific accident I was in with my previous partner, and lost his nan who brought him up, her husband was completely independant and cooked for us!!!
Grieving can take 1-2 years btw......