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Cruella,
Your advice is good, and been heeded, I will post back tomorrow, just can't say what time.
amonty,
Thanks for all the work you put in on this, but I must tell you, as far as using the car for work, its just on the odd occasion to get to work, not for work itself, I phoned Mororbility about it quite some time ago, and they said I could, because I was using it in order to put food on her plate, a roof over her head etc, I asked for it in writing, and they obliged.
Insurance,
Again, (remembering that we thought we were doing the centr a favour), I got in touch with Royal London, and they said out daughter had to be in twentyfour hour care, which techically, she is, from us to the centre, and from the entre to us, and they accepted that.
The only priviso was that whoever drove the car, had to let Royal London have their details first.
Having done all that for them, we weren't expecting them to replace the bus with the car, not forgetting, that they were supposed to have it three days a week, and the other two they were supposed to use the bus.
In the short term, we are screwed, of course, all depending on this meeting, but we have no faith in the Social worker, also we got Mencap involved, they were supposed to come to this meeting also, but cancelled.