What would you rather be

[4getmenot]

a larger woman with personality and a zest for life
or a skinny person with no personality and bitter?

[Goodsoulette]

I find this a really difficult question to answer seriously 4get. I was a fatty and I wasn't happy about it. In fact in stopped me doing anything I wanted to do and I got so shy I couldn't even get on a bus and yup, it was all to do with the size of my tummy, bum and thighs. No one ever told me I was fat though. I'm not sure how I would have reacted. I cant imagine being larger and having a zest for life. Sorry. I'm not being shallow, its just I enjoy being able to run around with my kids and wear clothes from any shop and not worry about having heath implications anymore.

You see it on talk shows all the time. "You said you were happy when you were fat"

"Yeah, I was lying, I was crying on the inside"

[aka pixi]

I wouldnt like to be either of the choices, Im happy as I am :)

[natalie_1982]

I think people associate jolly with roundness because of Christmas anyway.

Anyone know the song "He's a jolly, jolly, jolly, jolly snowman" - I have never seen an underweight snowman, also Father Chistmas is reportedly jolly and he is rotund too.

Also, we usually put a few pounds on over Xmas and we are usually jolly at Xmas, so there you go.

[blu3wave]

I dont like Some fat people, dont have a prob with every one of them. Although, even the fat ppl i know are not as fat s this person I cant stand

[4getmenot]

then what has you liking them or not got to do with their size surely thats just because you dont like them. and natalie you're right some overly skinny people dont live a long and healthy life. and goodsoul it was out of two choices I think I'd rather have a personality than none. But you're ok you lost weight and hopefully had same personality, your size didnt matter to how other people saw you just how you saw yourself.

[blu3wave]

if you[re healthy you'll live a lot longer than someone who cant control their mouth and eats until they pass out.

Personality is subjective, maybe you might not liek me but a lot lot more people do. So what do i care what a couple of pixels online think of me. I'm still happy :) and all of the other things i said earlier too. Nothing's changed, my slim figure is just a bonus to what i am.

[4getmenot]

so you're just a liar then are you frumpy or slim??? Make your mind up. and I dont get it, a bonus to what exactly??

[legend758duo]

bluewave the more you post the more obvious it becomes to me that yuo arent who you first professed to be.

youve gone from fat n frumpy ( your words )

to quite a bitter nasty person with a size fixation.

your posts read more like a male chauvanist opinion than a womans opinion to me .

but then what do i know maybe yuo are fat n frumpy .

your certainly a miserable antisocial kinda person male or female i think you are vacuous and very superficial.

[4getmenot]

cant even add to the above post. He says it all.

[blu3wave]

legend, i feel i'm just talking to one person here as weirdly enuf you all sound the same. It makes as much difference to me as an ant's poo what your opinion or thought about me is. Coz I dont know you and u don know me. You can call me vile, superficial shallow blah blah blha. Doesnt make it true does it?:)

[legend758duo]

it amuses me to see you are without doubt one of the , i will call you , one of the" ab saboteurs "

as a saboteur you make it your business , in fact your daily task to either impersonate folk or just plain annoy them..
i have no doubt you will post endlessly on this sunject if folk continue to waste precious minutes of their lives by replying.

i do thibnk you should move onto another subject.

the mccanns is always popular and doc spock got many varied reactions to his anti gay posts.

failing that why not post how you think gary glitter is a god or even that jonathan king was just misunderstood.


the fat posts are getting tedious


and to be honest they lack originality , humour , factual content and theyre just plain dull.

im going to watch some paint dry , im sure its more fun

people take my advice .

go watch an egg boil and leave the saboteur to play with themselves . : -)

[blu3wave]

if u dont like it...:) Bye now