What would you rather be

[4getmenot]

a larger woman with personality and a zest for life
or a skinny person with no personality and bitter?

[China Doll]

What kind of question is that?!

It's hardly done with no bias!

[4getmenot]

well I'd rather be large with personality as if I was unhappy with weight I could lose some whereas if I never had personality in first place it would be hard to get

[natalie_1982]

Depends why the skinny person is bitter, also has the larger woman really got a zest for life or is she like the "larger woman" in my office who loves playing up to being the "jolly, fat one" (her words not min) yet is actually a manipulative, schemin moose underneath?

Does the skinny one have any boobs? Does the larger one have trouble catching her breath? How large is large?

[blu3wave]

hmmm... that is if you even had a personality.

I would be slim, good looking with a fantasitc personality. Better than your crap choice above. Have a burger on me tho ;)

[blu3wave]

forgot to add, i am all of the above. so happy with me! :)

[4getmenot]

I'm afraid that wasnt in the choices blu3wave. I cant give you a miracle.

[mrs_overall]

As a skinny person I would like to think I have some personality!
I've known miserable, bitter fat people, thin people with huge personalities and vice versa.
Why are larger people so often associated with the word "jolly?"

[natalie_1982]

I'd prefer to have meat onmy bones and a personality, but what use is a sense of humour if you're so big you will be dead before you're 45?

[4getmenot]

As i said before I know fat nasty people but nothing to do with size they are just not very nice people

[redcrx]

all the above??

larger
skinny
bitter
unhappy
slim
manipulative
good looking
schemin
moose

thats a heck of a lot to get through in a day!

Id rather be happy and loved. i wouldnt care if i was larger.

[4getmenot]

I guess I;m lucky in that I'm not large but then not skinny. Skinny people get taunted too.

[B00]

I speed read your question and I thought it said "skinny person with no personality and a biter"

Had to blink at it a few times I can tell ya!

[blu3wave]

fat people are jolly coz they are thick, they obviously can understnad that eating less is heathy and so end up dropping dead quite early in life. Also, eating makes ppl happy too i suppose..... so the more you stuff your face, the happier you are :)

[natalie_1982]

Red, you didn't mention "jolly". Though I don't think you'd have time to be jolly because you'd be busy being all the others.

[Katie~77]

When you say "larger woman", how large do you mean???x

[dot.hawkes]

are you a psychiatrist and a dietitian blu?

[4getmenot]

but you said the girl lastnight wasnt happy??

[natalie_1982]

Blu, if you're adopting that simple attitude then couldn't the same be said for thin people? i.e. they don't eat enough so they must be thick?

That's a tad harsh - some people have hormone imbalances or illnesses that determine their weight, many of us are either just naturally larger or slimmer! You can't just call bigger people thick!

[blu3wave]

i said she was laughing.... sonrting away like a fat pig. I guess in her drunken state she might have been happy, i dont know her, thankgod, so have no idea what she's like and whtehr she's jolly

[4getmenot]

then if she was happy she must have had a good time. as you just said you have no idea what she is like. Do you have any large friends?