I'm going to that word again......:X

[blu3wave]

What is wrong with calling people fat nowadays? Why do ppl get so uptight whenever someone on here says they are disgusted by fatties? Maybe One and all on this site are Fat? I cant think of any other reason....... is it really that terrible to call someone fat? When they are? It might actually help them you know so they notice it too and go on a diet. About time, I think!

[4getmenot]

no she's frumpy rosenicola see post above

[blu3wave]

maybe i am disgusted by excess..... when i see huGe ppl outside with so much fat on them that they cant walk, it literally makes me sick. The fat girl in the club was not too far off from there....... so what can i say? She needs to control her feeding habits, for her own good at least!

[Goodsoulette]

http://thetrendsetter.files.wordpress.com/2007 /05/crystal26.jpg

http://www.nancyhayssen.com/media/structure/bl og-side_27.jpg

Big is often beautiful blu3wave.

[Rosenicola]

Now this is definately just for a reaction now..

Are you that bored that you can't get over this gitl that you saw.. I feel so sorry for her and i don't eve know her..

I think you have issues yourself of insecurity, hence why you are going on so much about other things..

It's quite sad really

[blu3wave]

Umm,, not in my opinion no. Big is just disgusting. The woman in the pic still has some semblance of curves.... the fat ppl i've seen, well no shape but rotund/rubinesque .... its gross.

[blu3wave]

i'm going on becoz i got a lot of anger from the users on here about it. She means nothing to me, i'm just glad i'm not her!

[4getmenot]

but you have just said on another post you like some fat people you dont like some. So surely this proves it is nothing to do with size. Or why do you like a person that disgusts you so much?

[4getmenot]

if she means nothing to you why post a question about her?

[4getmenot]

they are gorgeous goodsoulette but what I;m trying to get across is that even if they were ugly they could be the nicest friendliest person in the world. Hardly anyone knows what people look like on here but some people have different opinions on some obviously regardless of what they look like.

[Supernick]

This is a perfect example of the great social disease of the noughties. Over the last few years a very peculiar trend has emerged that it's good thing to 'speak your mind' or 'just tell it like it is'.

Some people are fat, that's a fact. Walking up to someone and telling them that they're fat is telling them the truth. But they would also be the actions of a total w****r.

The reason people get upset with others 'saying it to their faces' (another pointless and mean spirited phrase) is that it's tactless and unecessarily cruel most of the time. What purpose does it serve to say that you're disgusted by fatties?

[4getmenot]

yes some people are supernick but does not mean by this they are horrible people

[blu3wave]

i feel better speaking my mind. I cant help the way i feel.

Just like some people can be racist and put it all down to speaking their mind, well free country n all that. So if i see a fat person, (a fugly frump even) i wont try and pretend they're not fat when they plainly are.

[4getmenot]

you ever heard dont judge a book by its cover blu3wave?

[mrs_overall]

Blu3, I'm sure if you posted a pic of yourself on here, there one be someone who viewed YOU as disgusting to look at.
This isn't a personal dig - I'm just making the point that you may have a physical feature that turns someones stomach, but I'm sure they wouldn't bang on about it.
Live and let live.

[redcrx]

if she means nothing to you (bit of a condradiction when you say you cant stand her on the other post) then why do you feel the need to post about her and call her fat? why cant you just accept that everyone is different in life and that some are larger than others?

and GS, those are lovely pics, Big certainly can be beautiful and Id much rather see pics like that than a size 0 model with bones on show

[Rosenicola]

It's just a bitter, superficial and cheap comment.

My best mate is larger than me and i wouldn't change her for the world..

Cheap opinions if u ask me!!!
And Goodsoulette, those woman are attractive on those photo's and i'm sure most men would agree too :-)

[Supernick]

Not sure I understand your comment 4get? I don't think it's remotely possible to take from my post that I think that there is a correlation between being fat and being a horrible person. Sorry, if that's not what you mean..

[blu3wave]

so i dont post my pic online for just everyone to see do I? I let my friends see me for what i am. I dont think i am beautiful and dont pretend to be..... but i wont lie about it and say, oh arent i sexy blah blah blah. Thats just being an asslicker and lying.

[mrs_overall]

Damn dyslexic keyboard......
there would be someone....

[4getmenot]

and maybe the girl doesnt that you saw lastnight. You said you dont know her so maybe get to see her for what she is hey? treat others how you'd like to be treated yourself.