Would you trust a man with

[Doc Spock]

1. Balding head and pony tail.
2.Pierced ears.
3. Too much bling.
3. Any combination of above.

Why can't men be real men like me, why do some feel the need to have a girly ponytail and poncy earings.

[aka pixi]

lol doc, my fella is definitely a real man, he has quite a few piercings and they arent poncy at all.

Can you explain why you are a real man but fellas with piercings/ponytails arent?

[Doc Spock]

Because they look completely stupid on a male.

[someonesgirl]

maybe youre actually looking at ladies with masculine features.....

[Reverandfunk]

Spock I have both my ears pierced, eyebrow and nipple, I colour my hair, go on a sunbed, wax my chest and eyebrows and have several tattoo's and I've been out with more women than you could shake a stick at.

[someonesgirl]

im liking nipple peircings on men......

[4getmenot]

http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_app rove/1770533/2/istockphoto_1770533_shake_a_sti ck_at.jpg

[someonesgirl]

hahahahhahhahahahha 4get!

[Doc Spock]

Hi Rev, I have heard that some women go for the bizarre.

That is a hell of a thing to admit to BTW.

[Reverandfunk]

very good 4get ;-)

I would have sent you a pic the digital camera I bought off ebay is in the bin lol

[Reverandfunk]

Admit to what? lol

[4getmenot]

why is it, surely if we were all the same it would be very boring

[Doc Spock]

All the odd things you feel you need to do to your body. You must have been very unhappy with the way it naturally was.

[someonesgirl]

we'd be like lego people.....

[4getmenot]

wow that would be cool to have lego hair you could change everyday :-)

[Aquagility]

By the same token, how can one admire a woman with painted nails and lips, too much bling and possibly a fur coat?

[Doc Spock]

We are all different in a natural way, hair, facial expressions, personality.


We don't need a bone through our nose to make us stand out.

I would imagine if Rev read the 10 pm news there would be a public outcry.

[Doc Spock]

It is normal for a woman to adorn herself as she is basically dowdy and plain.

Check out a peacock and a peahen.

We males have no need of such transformations.

[someonesgirl]

but then we'd have to paint on our clothes......and be yellow....

so youre saying if someone has a peircing, they are trying to stand out?

[4getmenot]

and why not they do it in africa doc

[saxy_jag]

I'm not a lover of bling. To me it denotes shallowness, although I like a guy with, say, a single bootlace necklace or chain. I have no problem with a ponytail (got to keep the hair out of his face somehow). If a guy's balding naturally, then there's not a lot he can do about it.

What I really detest is the Grant Mitchell style shaven-headed variety of male. Who do these guys think they are? Who on earth do they think they impress? They are the ones who go with the bling in my opinion.

Gimme a guy with hair I can run my fingers through any day - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neil_Oliver