You do surprise me Wardy. I remember you saying that you were a Christian and unless I have got it horribly wrong, isn't the fundamental message to love one another? I take people as I find them and do not turn on anyone unless they do me a bad turn. I try to find the good in everyone and can usually find some redeeming quality in everyone I meet. I have never had a cross word with you because although I do not agree with certain things you post, I never feel the need to personally insult you, or anyone else for that matter and think that perhaps that is why we have never crossed swords. (You are entitled to your opinions but you must realise that certain subjects can be deeply hurtful to others. My aunt died of Cancer and I hate when you wish cancer on others) but I do sigh when I see some of your posts about the disabled, handicapped etc.(Especially when you have contributed some wonderfully insightful posts) There but for the grace of God. (If you believe in God) A simple twist of fate can change your life in a heartbeat and I count my blessings for what i've got. I am lucky enough to have healthy children but I know in my heart of hearts that I would love any child I gave birth to who happened to be born with any apparent problems because they would still be my flesh and blood regardless. It is society who has the problem, not these kids who are beautiful and loving.